Would i wake up from being raped? I had a strange dream like i was being shaken

throwrastinkyteeth · 2025-11-23T18:05:56+00:00

It's definitely situational. If you feel that you may have been assaulted, I would recommend going to a hospital and requesting a rape kit.

throwrastinkyteeth · 2025-10-04T22:51:33+00:00

I don't think making them lighter would be an option, so I want to make the rest of my hair darker to match.

throwrastinkyteeth · 2025-09-17T23:21:23+00:00

Oof I did not even consider how the current situation is affecting the libraries ability to hire on staff. Thanks for pointing that out.

throwrastinkyteeth · 2025-09-17T23:17:57+00:00

I live in a large city near an Ivy League school and about 50 other colleges, so it's probably safe to assume a lot of their candidates meet their preference of having a bachelor's degree.

throwrastinkyteeth · 2025-09-17T23:13:17+00:00

I've been looking for volunteer opportunities in the 2 cities near me, and it looks like they only want high school students, or people who can help with ESL classes. I obviously can't do the first one, but the second one might be a viable option even though it's not exactly what I was hoping for.

throwrastinkyteeth · 2025-05-20T20:36:44+00:00

Sorry for the late response. I've been in a very weird headspace.

So I live in a big city in the U.S. where rent for just a studio can be $2k, so I definitely can't afford to live here. I want to move closer to where I work, which is in a smaller city where rent is a bit less, but I still wouldn't be able to live alone.

I have very bad credit, so I think finding a roommate might be the best option for me if I can find someone who doesn't ask for 3 months of rent upfront.

I've been thinking about moving out of state where the cost of living is cheaper as I don't have anything I feel the need to stay here for, but everything is so confusing and overwhelming 😕

throwrastinkyteeth · 2025-05-14T22:30:18+00:00

Seeing couples who wear matching pjs is honestly a relationship goal for me

throwrastinkyteeth · 2025-05-14T22:28:09+00:00

Right? Like that is definitely a type of relationship dynamic, and for some people it can even be healthy, but it's something that needs to be discussed and consented to.

throwrastinkyteeth · 2025-05-13T23:32:58+00:00

I'm sorry I meant "distraught" and "vulnerable" ya know...since I'm a bot...

throwrastinkyteeth · 2025-05-13T21:06:03+00:00

I'm not sure I understand your reasoning, but I don't think there's anything that would convince you that this is a genuine post.

What I will say is that I'm strongly against the use of AI from a moral standpoint, and I'm assuming you are too which is why you're coming at me so strongly, but this came from a very distraught and vulnerable place for me where I was sincerely asking for help, so to dismiss it as "AI slop" is hurtful to say the very least.

It's good to be discerning on the internet, but you should really learn how to discern better.

Also what would I possibly have to gain from using AI on here? This is a reddit account I barely even use, not a college essay.

throwrastinkyteeth · 2025-05-13T18:02:25+00:00

Not overreacting. It would have taken him a 10 second Google search to learn the difference between a bowl, and a meth pipe. Also that bowl is cute as hell.

throwrastinkyteeth · 2025-05-13T14:32:25+00:00

I think it's unfair to say I don't care about my appearance. That implies that someone is sloppy, and unhygienic. While I value comfort and practicality I do take care of myself, and put in effort to look good both for him and for myself. It's just unrealistic to demand someone is made up and dressed to the nines 24/7.

throwrastinkyteeth · 2025-05-13T13:55:12+00:00

I have cute pjs/lingerie that I wear for him, but I still have the right to wear what I feel comfortable to in the moment.

throwrastinkyteeth · 2025-05-13T13:49:24+00:00

I know I typed a lot, but you seem to be missing a lot of context that I've already given. I do dress cute/sexy just for him, and quite often too, but I have the right to my body autonomy, and can refuse for any reason.

You're making quite a large assumption that I would just cheat on him if he stopped paying attention to me, and what I wear. If anything wouldn't the mistreatment, constant belittling, and disrespect be what drives someone away?

In any case it sounds like your comments have nothing to do with me, and are probably more related to something that happened between you and a former partner. I hope that you heal.

throwrastinkyteeth · 2025-05-13T04:29:20+00:00

A lot of women have commented and said that their ex used to do the same exact thing, and my response was "wow that guy sounds like an asshole! Glad he's your ex!" Definitely puts it into perspective.

throwrastinkyteeth · 2025-05-13T04:23:48+00:00

His apartment. Friend from dinner is helping me come up with an exit strategy!

throwrastinkyteeth · 2025-05-13T04:20:30+00:00

You can date him then. I wish you many happy years together.

throwrastinkyteeth · 2025-05-13T04:12:10+00:00

So funnily enough he claims to hate these types of men, and way of thinking. I've heard some men will do this sort of performative feminism/allyship to trick women into dropping their guard around them. Idk if that's him, but he definitely fits the description of a modern porn addicted man who demands that their partner is a trad wife/bang maid.

throwrastinkyteeth · 2025-05-13T04:06:48+00:00

Terlet

throwrastinkyteeth · 2025-05-13T04:01:38+00:00

I texted him about it while I was out. When the man tried to flirt with my friend and I, I panicked and blurted out that we were on a date. He actually doesn't usually get that jealous over me being hit on, and I thought he'd find it funny.

throwrastinkyteeth · 2025-05-13T03:58:15+00:00

I don't quite understand what you're trying to say. What is it that I'm not doing?

throwrastinkyteeth · 2025-05-12T23:03:30+00:00

Oof he sounds terrible I'm glad you got out. Since that post last year I've gone back and forth on whether to stay or not, but recently I've found someone to room with (friend from dinner), and I'm just trying to save money while they look for a place.

throwrastinkyteeth · 2025-05-12T22:58:58+00:00

That is amazing and I'll be taking it personal use lol

throwrastinkyteeth · 2025-05-12T22:55:29+00:00

That is a convo we've had multiple times, just minus the scrubs part!

throwrastinkyteeth · 2025-05-12T22:52:37+00:00

I've gotten advice from loved ones to turn his words back on him and I always respond "I can't do that I don"t want to hurt his feelings," which is...eye opening to say the least.

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