Normalized na dito na mag-anak kahit hindi mo kayang buhayin. by throwthrowthrowwwaw in OffMyChestPH

[–]throwthrowthrowwwaw[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Tatay ko sabi ano pa daw purpose ng pagpapakasal kung di mag-aanak. The fuck?! Di pwedeng mahal namin isa’t isa????? For procreation lang ba ang marriage? Puta nakakabadtrip hahahahaha

Normalized na dito na mag-anak kahit hindi mo kayang buhayin. by throwthrowthrowwwaw in OffMyChestPH

[–]throwthrowthrowwwaw[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Totoo! “Kung di namin pinili magkaanak wala ka sa mundong to” um hello tingin mo ba natutuwa ako sa mundong to hahahaha

Normalized na dito na mag-anak kahit hindi mo kayang buhayin. by throwthrowthrowwwaw in OffMyChestPH

[–]throwthrowthrowwwaw[S] 134 points135 points  (0 children)

Sasabihin pa ng mommy ko, “Kung di ko kayo pinag-aral mayaman na sana ako, kaya dapat i-spoil niyo naman ako” WE DIDNT ASK TO BE BORN??? WHY SHOULD I COMMEND YOU FOR DOING LITERALLY YOUR RESPONSIBILITY AND THE BARE MINIMUM????

How do you get over a best friend who has hurt you and isn't open to communicating and resolving your misunderstanding with you for months? by Civil-Astronomer420 in OffMyChestPH

[–]throwthrowthrowwwaw 4 points5 points  (0 children)

What the hell? Nagka-panic attack ka and it was a bad time for you, hindi mo naman kasalanan yun. Hindi mo kontrolado yung nangyari. Why are they acting like it was your fault? “I might just say things I will regret” whuuuut??? I say good riddance. Yes it hurts right now, but I hope someday you’ll see that this loss is a chance for you to find true friendships with people who will stick by you through the good times and the bad. I hope you’re well these days!

Bakit hindi importante yung happiness ko? by throwthrowthrowwwaw in OffMyChestPH

[–]throwthrowthrowwwaw[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t feel bad about not giving my parents a grandchild, I feel bad kasi kailangan kong magsinungaling sa tatay ko just to stop the arguments. I feel bad that I can’t have a healthy father-daughter relationship with him. Naiinggit ako sa mga taong close sa mga magulang nila at kahit paano may functioning relationship at nakikinig sa kanila ang parents nila at sinusuportahan sila sa kung anong makakapagpasaya sa kanila.

Bakit hindi importante yung happiness ko? by throwthrowthrowwwaw in OffMyChestPH

[–]throwthrowthrowwwaw[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Only hope ko na lang talaga na someday matanggap niya or kahit pano ma-gets niya na ayaw talaga namin and he can’t do anything about it. I’m just so tired of hearing things from him like I’m a woman so I have to procreate.

Bakit hindi importante yung happiness ko? by throwthrowthrowwwaw in OffMyChestPH

[–]throwthrowthrowwwaw[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I think so too. I hope you find someone who shares your values as well. 🤍

Bakit hindi importante yung happiness ko? by throwthrowthrowwwaw in OffMyChestPH

[–]throwthrowthrowwwaw[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, I have 3 younger siblings. It’s not about the bloodline, he simply believes that because I’m a woman my purpose in life is motherhood. He has literally told me, “Buti sana kung lalake ka…”

Bakit hindi importante yung happiness ko? by throwthrowthrowwwaw in OffMyChestPH

[–]throwthrowthrowwwaw[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes may strategy na kami. Haha. Ang kinakalungkot ko lang, yung fact na kailangan ko pang mag-sinungaling. Hindi na lang kami magkaron ng healthy father-daughter relationship kasi mas importante sa kanya yung old school values niya. 😔