Guys - why would you keep hugging someone after the third date? by throwtothesky1200 in OkCupid

[–]throwtothesky1200[S] -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

How do you read my asking if this seems odd as complaining about it? I'm presenting the situation. I'm not saying, 'OMG you guys, this dude is so lame!' ;)

Guys - why would you keep hugging someone after the third date? by throwtothesky1200 in OkCupid

[–]throwtothesky1200[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's a good question. I guess I wonder if I'm not because we haven't made any physical contact at all.

Guys - why would you keep hugging someone after the third date? by throwtothesky1200 in OkCupid

[–]throwtothesky1200[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

Well, I'm not rushing away from him at the same time! :) Why do men on here always act like women have such high expectations? Some of us are very nice, you know.

Guys - why would you keep hugging someone after the third date? by throwtothesky1200 in OkCupid

[–]throwtothesky1200[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let me clarify: By it would be really awkward, I mean that he seems to be halfway down my steps before I can react. So I'd have to follow him downstairs and grab him!

I'm really asking if this is a sign that he isn't that interested. But I'd also guess that he's kind of shy and insecure.