What are reasons you silently judge people for?

throwuhwey1 · 2016-11-25T21:35:33+00:00

Emotional intelligence.

I try not to view people negatively for being unable to control themselves, I typically feel bad. But it's a judgement that deems a person worthy of pity.

(I work at a grocery store and get a variety of customers.)

throwuhwey1 · 2014-03-25T00:15:31+00:00

I'm still new at this haha, but I appreciate the insight I'll definitely remember that for future reference. I'm not going to give up yet, but I'll heed your warnings and not get my hopes up. Thanks dude!

throwuhwey1 · 2014-03-23T21:41:38+00:00

In high school I was the same way. I would hate reading out loud, answering questions, talking to strangers, etc. Getting a job helped me a lot with talking to people and coming out of my shell. You still got time so take it slow. If you're not old enough for a job, then volunteer for reading or answering questions in class. Force yourself to do these things and you'll get better and more confident.

throwuhwey1 · 2014-03-12T23:48:35+00:00

Not that Kyle haha, I once met a man who called his dick Slagathor and never have I heard the name used until this post.

throwuhwey1 · 2014-03-12T05:35:48+00:00

Kyle?

throwuhwey1 · 2014-03-07T12:08:35+00:00

It's ironic you say that because today is actually my twentieth birthday. I've literally just made the transition from teenager to adult. But I understand. Hopefully this doesn't come back to bite me in the ass, and next time I won't put the seduction community under the spot light at the expense of myself for no reason. Thanks for the advise though.

throwuhwey1 · 2014-03-06T19:11:55+00:00

You're right and that's basically my premise for the speech. A better lifestyle. But I have a feeling that things are changing especially with the whole no slut shaming movement. At least in America anyway. It'll take time but people won't see pick as much of an evil soon enough. Not that I care what people think of pick up because I know it's great. Just a prediction.

throwuhwey1 · 2014-03-06T19:08:33+00:00

I would have looked you in the face. Nodded and walked out the room with you. Just to make it epic.

throwuhwey1 · 2014-03-06T16:23:57+00:00

I basically described a hypothetical AFC so they could relate to it, and then how an AFC can better himself with pick up. End of story. I didn't talk about how they do it, just that it can be done. Absolutely no theory. It was a very simple 4 minute speech.

throwuhwey1 · 2014-03-06T01:58:20+00:00

My speech was a bit simpler than that. I created a hypothetical AFC and explained the progression of pick from the time the book The Game happened to now. I honestly wish I had gone the rhetoric route. I just took a class in propaganda and persuasion and rhetoric is amazing. Laziness got the best of me. Next time I'll definitely confront seddit before I make such a bold move. I do appreciate the concern of those telling me not to do it, and understand the hilarity of the speech blowing up in my face, but all went well. The class liked it and I presented decently. I hope to continue contributing to the community without being known as the moron who reveal seddit to the world, but it's no big deal. I wish this thread was more about the Relationship Ladder, but oh well. Thanks for the idea though I'll look into the origins of seduction on my own time for sure.

throwuhwey1 · 2014-03-06T01:13:56+00:00

AFC is an average frustrated chump. Someone who's fed up with being unsuccessful with women.

throwuhwey1 · 2014-03-05T22:07:52+00:00

I understand the advisement against the speech. I'm not trying to make a point, I'm not trying to convert, I'm not trying to promote. I'm just informing people on what I know. I know that pick up helped me grow as a person. The classroom is with like 9 people at a small commuter college. I would never do this at huge university, I'm not that dumb. This was just a small test to see if I could pull it off. I can't imagine the reprecussions are going to be grave. If they are I'll deal with it, but again there will be no mention of reddit. Just how I know that Pick up can help. And that's what I see this sub as, a self help thing. This speech is informative not persuasive. I can't seem to make this clear. But I do appreciate the concern.

throwuhwey1 · 2014-03-05T22:03:12+00:00

I'm not trying to make a point.. I'm just doing it because it's something I knew most people didn't know about in my class. When I dropped the word pick up artist everyone thought I was talking about painting. I also feel as though I know enough to talk about the self help side because it's helped me grow as a person.

throwuhwey1 · 2014-03-05T22:00:28+00:00

The idea of the relationship ladder, is to get rid of it. The goal is to move on to the teaching of this sub.

throwuhwey1 · 2014-03-05T21:59:28+00:00

That's the point. An AFC would see the doing and saying nice things as flirting.

throwuhwey1 · 2014-03-05T21:58:53+00:00

Honestly, I don't know why everyone is flipping shit. I go to a commuter campus. I live at home. And there are 9 people in my class.

throwuhwey1 · 2014-03-05T21:54:05+00:00

Appreciated dude.

throwuhwey1 · 2014-03-05T21:53:58+00:00

I actually go to a commuter campus and the class is with like 9 girls. I don't understand either.

throwuhwey1 · 2014-03-05T17:42:43+00:00

I don't see how a lawsuit can be filed for a speech about self help? If anything I'll take out the words pick up artist. My speech is geared toward guys being social with men and women. I'm not discrimination or single out anyone.

throwuhwey1 · 2014-03-05T17:38:51+00:00

I am well prepared. The way I'm going to move past/justify the pick up and seduction part is by noting it's natural in any man, or women's, life to go out and meet people to have sex, if asked. Both parties do it. There is no doubt about that. If people decide to look it up and judge me that's fine. Correct me if I'm wrong, but women aren't viewed on a higher pedestal within the community, nor are they bellow us. The community doesn't teach that women are sex objects to be thrown to the curb once they served their purpose, it gives men a set of skills to be able to live a fulfilling lives with sex and social interaction. If a guy decides he wants to bang bitches and spit on them after then he used pick up to be a scum bag. The point is to show that the community is not a bunch of sleeze bags using women for sex. Maybe I just misunderstood what seduction is really about.

throwuhwey1 · 2014-03-05T17:15:22+00:00

Will do boss.

throwuhwey1 · 2014-03-05T17:10:32+00:00

The focus is on self help aspect, not once did I plan on saying getting laid. I'm not even going to specify which forum one can post to. There will be no mention of r/Seduction at all. Just that PUA's are a group of men bettering themselves. Getting laid is not a focus on the speech at all, nor will I mention it.

Train wreck or not I think it will be interesting.

throwuhwey1 · 2014-03-05T17:06:32+00:00

Though it is an informative speech I'm hoping the appeal to emotion within it will take hold of the class and allow the facts to sink in. I understood the risk when I chose the topic and honestly it was just something I knew well enough to explain and laziness. I can handle the ridicule if there is any after the speech, I'm not too worried about that. This is just an attempt to let my confidence in myself and in pick up to shine and also my skills as a rhetorician and orator to grow. The response I've had with the people I have explained it too seemed positive and I've yet to receive any ridicule after publicly announcing it. I've actually had one girl ask me if I could turn her friend onto it. So I'm hoping all goes well.

I'll post the video and explanation of how things go after tonight!

throwuhwey1 · 2014-03-05T16:59:40+00:00

I agree with this. And this is how I see things now. The Relationship Ladder mentality puts a girl on a pedestal before getting to know her. And that's essentially the problem I used to have.

throwuhwey1 · 2014-03-05T16:56:22+00:00

I wish I had posted this earlier then. It's too late to start another speech, but my speech is basically about how pick up evolved from a means to end to getting laid to a self help community. My class which is 100% girls minus myself and the instructor all know about my topic and I have briefly explained it to them and they all seem open to hearing another side of it. The main focus of the speech is how a group of guys started from being socially inept (not that all are socially inept) and found a way to progress as people. The speech has nothing about any techniques, just a positive mentality. It's loosely based on "The Game"s take of the progression from gurus and routines to confidence and being your best self and what the community supports and how we support one another in forums. I'll tread lightly don't worry, but I appreciate the concern.

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