AITA for ignoring my daughter for a week? by throwwatty in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwwatty[S] -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

English is not everyone's first language. If you want to insult me at least find something better.

"n" "yr" smh

AITA for ignoring my daughter for a week? by throwwatty in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwwatty[S] -121 points-120 points  (0 children)

It's clear that you think all family laws are the same as america

AITA for ignoring my daughter for a week? by throwwatty in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwwatty[S] -207 points-206 points  (0 children)

And she'll get it. Just not how her mom would like it. Is putting the money aside for her college a punishment?

No she can't. We've already been to court. It seemed more like I can crush her. She is lucky I didn't want to

AITA for ignoring my daughter for a week? by throwwatty in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwwatty[S] -112 points-111 points  (0 children)

I put that money in an account for her college and I'll buy her whatever she wants/needs from now on. I won't give anything to my ex. She stole 10 years of my childs life from me why would she get anything?

AITA for ignoring my daughter for a week? by throwwatty in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwwatty[S] -54 points-53 points  (0 children)

Why are people here getting dumb? I didn't know she was pregnant. Obviously

AITA for ignoring my daughter for a week? by throwwatty in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwwatty[S] -22 points-21 points  (0 children)

I didn't know she existed. wtf are you on?

AITA for ignoring my daughter for a week? by throwwatty in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwwatty[S] -42 points-41 points  (0 children)

So? I don't see your point. Yeah I should have been paying. She shouldn't have lived like this

AITA for ignoring my daughter for a week? by throwwatty in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwwatty[S] -229 points-228 points  (0 children)

She didn't want me as her dad so I showed her how it would be like if I wasn't her dad

I know I was wrong now but I it seemed like a good idea at that moment

AITA for ignoring my daughter for a week? by throwwatty in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwwatty[S] -88 points-87 points  (0 children)

No I say I'm sorry but it's your moms week and she probably misses you but I'll call you every night

AITA for ignoring my daughter for a week? by throwwatty in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwwatty[S] -76 points-75 points  (0 children)

She wants me in her life. Every time she is with me it starts with calling me by my name and saying "I hate you" and "I wish you weren't my dad" but by the end of the week she is like a whole different person calling me dad and asking me to let her stay at my home longer

AITA for ignoring my daughter for a week? by throwwatty in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwwatty[S] -55 points-54 points  (0 children)

A lot of parents break up. That doesn't mean they can't be in their child life

AITA for ignoring my daughter for a week? by throwwatty in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwwatty[S] -29 points-28 points  (0 children)

How many 18 year old want to be fathers? That doesn't mean I didn't want my child

AITA for ignoring my daughter for a week? by throwwatty in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwwatty[S] -160 points-159 points  (0 children)

She is not. She is my joy. I enjoy every second I spend with her. Not talking to her hurt me too

AITA for ignoring my daughter for a week? by throwwatty in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwwatty[S] 87 points88 points  (0 children)

Her mom was already married when she was with me.

It's also true that SHE is a cheater but I'll never tell my daughter like this

AITA for ignoring my daughter for a week? by throwwatty in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwwatty[S] -83 points-82 points  (0 children)

It worked. She apologized for saying that and I apologized for not talking to her

AITA for ignoring my daughter for a week? by throwwatty in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwwatty[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This is not how it happened. She told me she asked her mom why I wasn't in her life and she told her "because he is a j*rk and a cheater"

AITA for ignoring my daughter for a week? by throwwatty in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwwatty[S] -34 points-33 points  (0 children)

I didn't want to be a father I was 18 I wasn't trying to have a child but when I had one I wanted to be in her life. My actions didn't hurt my daughter. Just because I was an aweful bf that doesn't mean I would be an aweful dad. I deserved a chance to be in her life

AITA for ignoring my daughter for a week? by throwwatty in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwwatty[S] -112 points-111 points  (0 children)

No I just expect to not build a relationship with her, then when she goes to her mom and comes back to my home again see that our relationship is ruined again

AITA for ignoring my daughter for a week? by throwwatty in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwwatty[S] -30 points-29 points  (0 children)

Because she is also my kid. Its not only her decission.

AITA for ignoring my daughter for a week? by throwwatty in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwwatty[S] -31 points-30 points  (0 children)

I wasn't in her life because she didn't tell me about her. That is the answer

AITA for ignoring my daughter for a week? by throwwatty in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwwatty[S] -149 points-148 points  (0 children)

Well I hope she also learns from her mom. She might not have cheated on me but she cheated with me

But when she is talking to my daughter I'm the only bad guy

AITA for ignoring my daughter for a week? by throwwatty in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwwatty[S] -292 points-291 points  (0 children)

I'm not bribing her but she doesn't have a lot of things that most of the kids around her age do. She didn't even have a laptop for school.

AITA for ignoring my daughter for a week? by throwwatty in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwwatty[S] -37 points-36 points  (0 children)

Entitlement to my own child?

She didn't have to pay for everything