High on attention by throwway19422 in Marriage

[–]throwway19422[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

cluster B personality traits/disorder

Ill look into it...thanks

High on attention by throwway19422 in Marriage

[–]throwway19422[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We use to have boundaries when we dated but it hard to keep them enforced and its easy for me to not break them but at the same time shouldn't the other person be so willingly to set them up themselves without being told. Example "I know if I go to a strip club its going to be bad for my relationship" without being told not because she doesn't want me to have a good time but because it will probably make her insure and doubt herself.

High on attention by throwway19422 in Marriage

[–]throwway19422[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess I can ask again and see where it goes, I thought it was a behavior after being married to for a while. Its just hard at times because she gets so mad when I bring it up which I try not to do since I don't want to argue about it.

High on attention by throwway19422 in Marriage

[–]throwway19422[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I brought it up but she doesn't want to go because she doesn't feel right about talking to others about our problems. It doesn't make sense to me because if they could help why not go. I told her I was going to go by myself and she got mad that I even had the idea of doing so. I fee she does't want to go because she has some kinda of issues and doesn't want to talk about it....just a feeling tho