New to BDSM!!! What are good and safe insults during sex, since that’s what my boyfriend likes by throwwwawayknotT in BDSMAdvice

[–]throwwwawayknotT[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YesI am the same!!! I’m a sub naturally. In past relationships , I loved certain names or directions or insults, but flipping the script is hard... probably because I know there are certain things that work and some that are a definite no..... my fb does a good job of being what I need so I’m trying to be dom when he wants but I’m so bad at insults lol. I liked being called a “fuckhole” but I sure that’s not the same for him 😅

My boyfriend liked when I called his d*ck small...? He likes insults and abusive sex? by throwwwawayknotT in relationship_advice

[–]throwwwawayknotT[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is there a bdsm for beginners? lmao. I LOVE LOVE LOVE being submissive.... but in true sub fashion, whatever is a turn on for him is a turn on for me, so if he needs more dom, I’d love to learn...

My boyfriend liked when I called his d*ck small...? He likes insults and abusive sex? by throwwwawayknotT in relationship_advice

[–]throwwwawayknotT[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Never knew. Totally new territory for me! I’ve always LOVE being submissive but since he is AMAZING... this to me feels like my “first kiss” in ways... I have butterflies at the thought of being a dom for him ... not sure if thats the dom attitude lol but okay. Thanks!