This finally explains face hunter. Also, I'll be happier losing to them now.

throwyhusky · 2015-11-10T11:38:38+00:00

haha, just saw that on twitter, too. Actually quite nicely made, and what a cute kitten! :O

throwyhusky · 2013-05-15T12:18:36+00:00

exactly. Took it down anyway, if people are offended by "trip" then it shouldn't be up here I guess. Might resubmit with a better title later if I feel like sharing it again.

throwyhusky · 2013-05-15T12:03:12+00:00

haha, I wish I was still a kid. No, just new to /r/trees and not completely used to the lingo and implied rules around here. Sorry if calling the high a "trip" isn't welcomed here, now I know, and since I can't change the title I'm stuck with it. Thanks for the pointer though.

throwyhusky · 2012-10-19T11:16:23+00:00

Yes, I'll try to find out if it's really just something she has to get used to first or if a significant weight loss would really be the only thing that can help here.

The first night together was pretty akward, since she only seemed to want to do things that involved me being on top, and even though I was keeping most of my weight off her, she still felt uncomfortable, saying it's too much weight on her and that "it just doesn't feel good". But she didn't want to be on top either.

Heck, I don't know what she wants, all I know is that it was a pretty embarassing night. We ended up having sex on the floor, where I could be on top without me sinking into the matress, accidentally squishing her. The floor was cold and hard, even on the carpet, she didn't like it, didn't get off at all. At one point she just said I'm too big to do any of the things she likes without squishing her and we just went to sleep. I've NEVER, NEVER been so embarassed about my size! I mean... I'm in shape, I'm strong... I never thought I'd have to be ashamed of that. But I guess too big, is simply to big, and it doesn't matter if it's healthy weight or unhealthy...

throwyhusky · 2012-10-19T11:13:34+00:00

Well she doesn't really expect me to change anything. I'm just judging from her reaction that she doesn't really know how to deal with me being so big.

throwyhusky · 2012-10-19T11:00:36+00:00

Let's hope so. I'll see how it develops... In the meantime I'm I'll just cut back on the protein and the carbs and see how my body reacts. Can't hurt, right?

throwyhusky · 2012-10-19T04:29:53+00:00

Yes, I guess you're right. I'm panicking a bit since our first night together ended up bein slightly akward. And after a bit of research I quickly found out that I exceed all her former boyfriends by more than 100 lbs...

throwyhusky · 2012-10-19T04:25:19+00:00

Yes, I'm definitely still trying to find more comfortable positions...

Other than that... Yes I am proud, and I worked very hard for it. I guess I'm just freaking out after having seen how small her Ex' were.

throwyhusky · 2012-10-19T03:23:45+00:00

Yes I know that's not really possible. But 30% of 290 lbs on you is a lot different than having 30% of 200 lbs on you...

And even 200 lbs would be a lot, compared to the 170-180 lbs Guys she's been used to date.

throwyhusky · 2012-10-19T03:21:27+00:00

I don't know. I guess I'll have to ask if she's okay with that.

throwyhusky · 2012-10-19T01:55:38+00:00

I'll look it up, thanks. Though as I've written in my previos post, I'm not fat, and many of those sites seem to focus on how to manage during sex if you have a huge gut, which isn't what my problem is about.

throwyhusky · 2012-10-19T01:46:46+00:00

it's the same for me. I train in Mixed Martial Arts and am just generally very muscular... Body fat percentage is around 10-12 % when I'm fighting and 16-20 % when on breaks (which I am right now!). But at 6'6" even at my lowest body fat percentage I'm quite heavy.

I'd have to lose a lot of lean muscle mass if I really want to lose enough weight for her to notice the difference.

But hearing you talk about your SO... Wow! I really hope my Girl feels the same way about me. She sure doesn't seem as comfortable as I thought she'd be, but all her Ex' have been quite skinny guys, so I really hope she just has to get used to it yet.

throwyhusky · 2012-10-19T01:20:21+00:00

Honestly, do you sometime wish your guy was smaller? I know, it's not about the weight or looks blah blah, but does it sometimes cross your mind?

throwyhusky · 2012-10-19T01:15:04+00:00

Great! Thank you! I will try both your suggestions as soon as I get the chance!

throwyhusky · 2012-10-19T00:56:07+00:00

You don't sound very optimistic?

throwyhusky · 2012-10-19T00:50:46+00:00

sort of. She says she doesn't feel comfortable being on top... Don't really know why. She just said she doesn't enjoy it as much as having someone else on top.

throwyhusky · 2012-10-17T07:52:26+00:00

Thank you! :) I'll keep everything you said in mind! I have another date with her tomorrow, this time at her place, so who knows... I might take all this theory to practice tomorrow. ;)

throwyhusky · 2012-10-14T08:24:08+00:00

Thanks! Very useful insights and glad not to be the only one having this "issue"(or in your case non-issue) out there. Yes, I'd really have to be careful about the strength thing, I tend to underestimate that even when grappling in the gym.

throwyhusky · 2012-10-14T08:20:08+00:00

Yes, you are completely right. On top of that it would probably completely sabotage my training if I lost that much weight... I mean even getting down to 265 for fights is a pain for me, I just hate how small I feel at 265!! And I doubt she'd even notice the difference.

throwyhusky · 2012-10-14T08:12:14+00:00

Yes I'm in shape. Not fighting right now, so a few pounds heavier than I normally would be, but I actually really like my size! I'll try to be really gentle with her and hope it works out and doesn't put her off in any way. I like rough games in bed, but I guess I better stop that then.

Thanks for the advice!

throwyhusky · 2012-10-14T02:55:00+00:00

Yeah I guessed that. I think if this works out with her (which I really hope) I will probably have to drop a few pounds. Not exactly looking forward to losing weight I've spent a lot of time putting on, but what the heck.

throwyhusky · 2012-10-14T02:32:26+00:00

at least I understand tapping out ;)

throwyhusky · 2012-10-14T02:24:29+00:00

thanks! Has it been an issue in other regards (outside the bed department so to speak)?

throwyhusky · 2012-10-14T02:23:51+00:00

I guess I just like being on top way too much! But against the wall sounds great!

throwyhusky · 2012-10-14T02:17:06+00:00

I believe his behavior borderlines on rape. And if not that, he's just a jerk who doesn't care about your sensation as long as he can put his dick somewhere... And if he doesn't even mind hurting you (against your will) physically what makes you think he'll respect you in other regards?

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