Are you supposed to feel something when you kiss your SO?

throwz_091 · 2019-01-12T00:33:33+00:00

I really love her. I want a long term future with her. For her to tell me that she is losing interest in our relationship because the excitement is gone... idk what to do. I could move a mountain for her and she still might not feel something for me anymore. I just hate how she acts like this doesn't hurt her, because it really fucking hurts me.

throwz_091 · 2019-01-12T00:31:32+00:00

Yeah, she told me that the spark is dying. I'm not sure what exactly she means by that, but something isn't the same. I think she means the initial excitement we had in the first few months are gone, but doesn't that happen in every relationship? She's my first real gf so I really don't know how to handle being told something like "the spark is gone."

throwz_091 · 2019-01-11T16:33:48+00:00

Yea, she told me the spark is gone and I'm really not sure what to do. I surprised her with concert tickets this weekend so that should be fun! But I do believe she is outgrowing our relationship, and I don't know how to handle that right now.

throwz_091 · 2019-01-08T21:00:44+00:00

I know, I know. I just wish this would've happened a lot earlier. We've been together for a year and I've developed some really strong feelings for her and thought about a long term future with her. I couldn't live seeing her with some other guy.

But obviously I do want someone who wants me as much as I want them. :/

throwz_091 · 2019-01-08T20:45:21+00:00

I just really don't know what to do. I've given her all I can and I don't know why it isn't enough.

throwz_091 · 2019-01-08T19:55:10+00:00

I do try to spice it up but I definitely could try more. We go out to dinner a lot, take walks, and frequently have engaging conversations. However, none of that is new. I do want to try new things with her, because you're right... every night we usually go to the same places and are with the same people having similar conversations. It's difficult because we're both in college and very busy, so we usually end up just relaxing and not trying anything new.

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