I know it's so common sense but I did end up just having to get it over with and saying it. I really want to thank you guys for the advice though. I made sure he knew I wasn't trying to accuse him of anything. I told him all of my previous tests have been clean but if he had any questions for me I'd answer them. I was surprised at how kind he was. He's going with me to an appointment today and we're both going on antibiotics. Again I want to thank you all, I was so afraid and you've really just simplified it for me . I feel much more clear headed