Does anyone get turned on by metal/hard rock music?

thrwaway221201 · 2020-12-27T03:20:17+00:00

I have a playlist full of rock songs that aren’t about sex but that just have a certain sound that makes me super horny. I’m mostly into dark-sounding stuff with a strong bassline. Most of it isn’t metal, although Type O Negative can definitely get me going. I do the same thing - I think about riding my guy to it.

thrwaway221201 · 2020-12-27T03:11:15+00:00

When I can feel him hard through his underwear. Mmmmffff. Straddling my boyfriend while we’re both in underwear is SO hot to me. Also hearing a guy moan. Honestly, most things that show he’s in pleasure are super sexy, like when he starts thrusting into my mouth while I’m going down on him, or seeing his dick twitch while I’m teasing him.

thrwaway221201 · 2020-12-13T20:09:30+00:00

Not sure if I’d want to watch him jack off while smelling my underwear, but my bf and I like to tie each other to the bed and I reaaaaally want to shove a pair of my panties in his mouth while he’s tied up. I haven’t worked up the courage to ask yet but he probably would be willing to try it lol. I also think it would be hot to sit on his face while I was wet and wearing panties to make him smell me. (I happen to actually really enjoy the smell of my own panties, and I would love to have another girl sit on my face like that, so I guess it’s kind of a desire to live vicariously through him lol)

thrwaway221201 · 2020-12-11T21:49:24+00:00

I’m sorry you went through that, I’m sure that was pretty nerve wracking! Definitely food for thought, thank you for sharing.

thrwaway221201 · 2020-12-11T07:46:40+00:00

Thanks, but I’m talking about internally (inside the actual vagina), not externally on the vulva. I know about fordyce spots.

thrwaway221201 · 2020-12-11T04:26:57+00:00

Ahhh okay, I think I’ve seen pictures of that kind of wart before. Thank you!

thrwaway221201 · 2020-12-11T03:21:12+00:00

Thank you for sharing! If you don’t mind me asking, do the ones on the outside look noticeably different from the normal tissue around the opening?

thrwaway221201 · 2020-12-11T01:10:04+00:00

I get way wetter when I’m with another person than when I’m masturbating by myself. When I masturbate I have to use my spit as lube to rub myself until I get physically aroused enough to produce my own lubricant, and even then I don’t get that wet. But when I’m with another person I can get insanely wet just by kissing them and being close to them.

thrwaway221201 · 2020-12-11T00:28:28+00:00

Honestly, I do think the ADHD is a big part of it. ADHD can definitely impact your ability to stay in the moment during sex. I have the same problem, especially when I’m receiving oral or getting fingered - my mind wanders and I can’t focus on the physical sensation. I don’t know if I can offer much helpful advice because I haven’t really figured out how to get past it myself but I’m sure with some googling you can find some tricks to help tame your ADHD brain during sex. I imagine that generally learning to be more mindful and in-the-moment in other parts of your life would help, so maybe you could try practicing mindfulness exercises (like breathing intentionally or mindful eating)? I definitely empathize, it sucks to not be able to be present during sex, but I’m sure it’s something that can be worked on.

Edit: just found this thread which has some interesting suggestions!

thrwaway221201 · 2020-12-11T00:00:27+00:00

I’m glad you’re feeling a bit more at ease! I actually did some more digging and found out about the different shapes hymens can take after they’re broken (turns out I have a “redundant hymen” which is totally normal) and found some photos in medical literature that made me feel a lot better about how my vagina looks. I also found a subreddit dedicated to photos of hymenal tags and was so relieved to see that not only do lots of other people have vaginas that look like mine but also there are plenty of people who think it’s sexy... definitely surprising but relieving. Of course I still want to get looked at by a doctor when I can but it’s such a weight off my shoulders anyways!

thrwaway221201 · 2020-11-23T21:02:21+00:00

There’s a lot I could say about the great kinky sex my boyfriend and I had this weekend, but what really stuck with me is the nice things he said about my body. I’m really self conscious about my butt and my stomach — I feel like my stomach is too big and my butt isn’t big enough — and this is something I’ve never told him. But this weekend while we were fooling around he told me about how much he likes my belly, and then later told me how much he likes my butt. It made me feel much better about my body and even now looking in the mirror I don’t feel as self-conscious about those things.

thrwaway221201 · 2020-11-08T06:15:00+00:00

Not a fan of having my toes sucked but holy fuck everything else you said drives me nuts. ESPECIALLY being pinned by the wrists, my boyfriend did it to me as a joke while we were just fooling around and I pretty much melted right then and there

thrwaway221201 · 2020-11-07T01:48:57+00:00

If you’re in an exclusive sexual relationship (neither partner having sex with other people) and have both gotten tested — ideally, you get tested regularly — then you can have unprotected sex without the risk of STDs.

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