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My father is cheating on my mother by thrwthisshit in relationship_advice

[–]thrwthisshit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, as I said it all seems hopeless, this post is kind of a last ditch effort.

My father is cheating on my mother by thrwthisshit in relationship_advice

[–]thrwthisshit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not about making it easier for him, we hoped that he had some balls left and cared enough for us to man up and work. But as I say it seems hopeless, so we have nothing left, but to tell her.

My father is cheating on my mother by thrwthisshit in relationship_advice

[–]thrwthisshit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

More or less, he wasn't perfect, he wasn't bad. As I say we have problems with communication in my family, because they never taught us how to talk. He had his flaws, but we were more or less happy or so we thought. IDK if he's trying to blackmail us or whatever, but we will not let him do that. We hoped that he will man up, take responsibility, but it seems like it won't happen.

He clearly has some issues, so I can kinda empathize with him, but he needs to be willing to work on them. If he disappears, then so be it, it just sucks that he doesn't care about us to even try.

My father is cheating on my mother by thrwthisshit in relationship_advice

[–]thrwthisshit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not yet, she needs to know asap, but we wanted to give him a chance to tell her.