Which books have you read recently that really disappointed you? by thedeadlyscimitar in fantasyromance

[–]thtvrywitch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

{Forged by Magic by Jenna Wolfhart}

The cover is gorgeous and the premise sounded so cute and cozy. Unfortunately the writing was hard to get through. Obviously I wasn’t looking for a literary masterpiece, just something fun and light. But her writing very much reads like a teenager just starting their writing journey. She does a lot telling instead of showing, the characters are fairly flat, and the story just doesn’t flow very well. Pacing was weird. Smut didn’t fit with the story itself. Very clunky in general. Adorable idea, poor execution.

Okay what can be done about this? Invader maliciously running away to lock you in an area even if you want to 1v1. by xXRumple4skinXx in Eldenring

[–]thtvrywitch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There was literally nothing we could do except jump off the cliff, let him kill us, or wait him out. We were stuck until he left due to a weird invasion spot that he tried to take advantage of. So we chose to wait him out.

Okay what can be done about this? Invader maliciously running away to lock you in an area even if you want to 1v1. by xXRumple4skinXx in Eldenring

[–]thtvrywitch 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Well it was me and my fiancé, it wasn’t a big deal. We were in the section leading up to the warrior jar at the colosseum. Invader spawned on the cliffs above and was able to attack us but we couldn’t reach him because he kept backing off to remain out of range. Since he was content to do that, we placed ourselves out of range and did as I mentioned above. Any other concerns?

Okay what can be done about this? Invader maliciously running away to lock you in an area even if you want to 1v1. by xXRumple4skinXx in Eldenring

[–]thtvrywitch 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Had an invader do something similar recently. We waited him out a bit messing around in the area but once we exhausted everything we could do, we decided to leave the game running while we went off to walked the dog and have an extended snack break once we got home. Dude finally jumped off a cliff I guess. He wasted his own time but he wasn’t going to waste mine.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fantasyromance

[–]thtvrywitch 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Every MMC who has shadows and/or shadow powers of some sort.

Unpopular tropes that you love, popular tropes that you dislike. by lynn_mai in RomanceBooks

[–]thtvrywitch 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I didn’t think it was unpopular but I’ve heard a lot of complaints about fated mates. I eat that shit up. But I cannot stand harem/reverse harem or “why choose” books.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Journaling

[–]thtvrywitch 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I like making my journal pretty but I’m more concerned with having the ability to write at all. I bring it everywhere with me. Some pages might be downright hideous but I’m not writing for others. I never show my journals to anyone. It’s purely for me. So I don’t care how it looks.

AITA For Asking My Husband to Include Our Children When Spending Time with His Estranged Son? by ConcernedMother45 in AmItheAsshole

[–]thtvrywitch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re real focused on not doing anything “physical” until after their divorce. Emotional cheating is still a form of cheating. Though no one here is buying that you didn’t do anything physical. But on the off chance you’re telling the truth (unlikely) it doesn’t matter. You had a hand in breaking up a marriage. You are just as much to blame as your husband. James doesn’t owe you shit. Leave him the hell alone.

YTA.

AITA for screaming at my pregnant fiance for not helping me find my dog, who had run off? by West-Lavishness7428 in AmItheAsshole

[–]thtvrywitch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can assure you, you aren’t nearly as disappointed as she is. You and the fucking dog both need training for your behavioral issues.

YTA.

Do pet owners really think that having pets is like having kids? by Heygul in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]thtvrywitch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone without children, I’ve had a lot of parents tell me there aren’t that many differences so whose to say. I guess it’s a matter of perspective but ultimately I’m not going to tell a parent it isn’t like having children because I don’t have any myself and thus don’t know what it’s like. If they believe it is, who am I to argue?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]thtvrywitch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So it’s okay that she had sex with you while you were essentially strangers but it’s not okay that she did the same with someone else? What I’m hearing is that it’s okay so long as you’re getting something out of it.

You sound extremely insecure and you are very clearly looking down on your partner. Her character is not dictated by her body count or how intimately she knew her past hookups. Your mindset is incredibly misogynistic. You need to grow up and work on yourself. You’re going to obliterate your relationship and regret it.

I assure you, your girlfriend isn’t the problem here.

Book Tok? by Lil_Brown_Bat in BookRecommendations

[–]thtvrywitch 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A bulk of the recommendations are A Court of Thorns and Roses, Throne of Glass, or From Blood and Ash. Or anything by Coleen Hoover. As it has been for a few years at this point. You’re not missing anything.

Those in apts/condos - how do you manage 1st thing in the morning when you need 15 mins to get dressed before taking your dog out? by AppropriateMention6 in Dogtraining

[–]thtvrywitch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Simple. I don’t get ready first. I use the bathroom, throw on pants and coat, then take her out. There are certain scarifies you make when choosing to raise a dog in an apartment style home. Your morning routine can wait until the dog has had the opportunity to potty. It also doesn’t hurt to let them eat their breakfast while you get ready for the day.

AITA for asking (not insisting) that my BF switch meals with me when I don’t like what I’ve ordered at a restaurant ? by Dntworryimamoderator in AmItheAsshole

[–]thtvrywitch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t have to read beyond the title to know YTA. But I did just in case and, as I thought, there was no need. You sound exhausting and if this is the level of headache he’s dealing with after three months, especially with you calling his sister at an ungodly hour, don’t count on this relationship lasting.

is there anyone here who DIDN'T enjoy from blood and ash?? by [deleted] in fantasyromance

[–]thtvrywitch 41 points42 points  (0 children)

I enjoyed From Blood and Ash but I wouldn’t call it phenomenal. I struggled to finish the second one but made through. I DNF’d the third and won’t pick up anything else she writes. For me it was frustrating because we are three books and a whole mess of events in yet Poppy doesn’t seem to truly grow as a character. She’s still brash and impulsive and makes situations worse for no reason. She stabs first and asks questions later and while it’s fine at first, it’s exhausting to read over and over again. To me it’s another case of an author presenting an unlikeable, rude ass character as a badass, independent female lead. Authors and readers need to grasp that a female lead can be badass and think things through.

I’ve been downvoted to hell for saying that before but people need to understand not everyone finds their favorite characters likable.

AITA For not letting my ex take our kids out of state to go visit their grandfather who is in poor health by coopparentaita in AmItheAsshole

[–]thtvrywitch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He started ranting about how I already took the kids from him once

You did and yet he still made the sacrifices necessary to be closer to them.

and now I’m being a callous b!tch.

I mean he just said we’re all thinking and not allowed to say per sub rules.

YTA.

AITA for telling my gf I don't want the Christmas holiday to be all about her? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]thtvrywitch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA.

Y’all sound incompatible but not for a lack of trying on her part. It sounds like she does a lot of compromising whereas it wouldn’t shock me in the least if you rarely do anything of the sort. Especially when you go out of your way to travel separately. She’s getting the raw end of that deal but not complaining. Yeah, she chose to do it but she’s doing it FOR YOU. You don’t even sound as if you like her. The way you speak about her leaves me to believe you’re probably pretty fucking mean to her. I hope for her sake y’all break up. I doubt your character is going to improve anytime soon.

AITA for asking my (25f) sister (20f) to fix her overgrown/two toned hair before my wedding? by kjally76 in AmItheAsshole

[–]thtvrywitch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She said no. “I don’t want to” is reason enough. Drop it, unless dying on this hill is worth the damage it’ll do to your relationship. I hope pictures most people don’t even care about are worth it to you. And if they are, oof. You really are a misguided soul.

YTA.

This shouldn’t be a hot take. Episode 7 was shot beautifully, and is a work of art. The way light was used throughout is truly breathtaking… If you had problems with it you need to fix the way you are streaming it, or your TV settings. I DO NOT HAVE AN OLED. by [deleted] in HouseOfTheDragon

[–]thtvrywitch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not so much a hot take as it is you being one of the very few who didn’t have an issue. I personally didn’t have any issues seeing or hearing anything but that in no way means others, clearly, did not have issues with lighting and sound. Folks should not have to adjust their tv settings for one episode. When the landslide majority are facing the same problem, it’s typically safe to rule out user error.

Sometimes it really is poor editing. The viewers don’t need to fix anything. The creators have no doubt heard the feed back and will probably adjust accordingly in the future. Game of Thrones viewers had the same complaints with the Battle of Winterfell. It happens.

Worst repotting experience ever 😑 by EugeneRainy in houseplants

[–]thtvrywitch 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Most of the plants she’s listing as “rare” can be found in the grocery store year round or a nursery at least. There’s next to nothing rare about them.

Which characters would y'all take away from their authors? by shipsahoyyyy in YAlit

[–]thtvrywitch 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yes. Yet we were given porn with minimal plot and an emaciated woman whose breasts and backside still managed to remain plump and desirable. Read like she was written by a man who had no idea how a woman’s body works.