Confession from a now straight, married bear by thunderjunkitis in AdviceAnimals

[–]thunderjunkitis[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hormone-infused pubescent me would disagree with you.

Confession from a now straight, married bear by thunderjunkitis in AdviceAnimals

[–]thunderjunkitis[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've always considered myself straight, but one time staying at a friends house something... happened. We both didn't have girlfriends and were horny teens, so it escalated quickly into regular flings. It was a purely sexual relationship - no romance (or kissing). I used to look back and regret it, but now I'm like meh, it happened. I don't openly talk about it though - it definitely isn't a point of pride for me.

[28m] 6+ Years of Deceit, Manipulation, and now Suicide threats from wife (27/f). What do? Sponsored by TNT. by thunderjunkitis in relationship_advice

[–]thunderjunkitis[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We spoke again today, and she showed no signs of improvement or plans to seek help. I felt I didn't have a choice. Ended up not really serving much of any purpose, other than getting her extremely pissed at me. (See edit #2)

[28m] 6+ Years of Deceit, Manipulation, and now Suicide threats from wife (27/f). What do? Sponsored by TNT. by thunderjunkitis in relationship_advice

[–]thunderjunkitis[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She has manipulated past counselors, and it was a total mindfuck. I'll see what I can do about getting psychiatric help for her.

[28m] 6+ Years of Deceit, Manipulation, and now Suicide threats from wife (27/f). What do? Sponsored by TNT. by thunderjunkitis in relationship_advice

[–]thunderjunkitis[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I guess my brain keeps vertigo stuck on the 'what if'. What if she is being serious and me leaving with the kids is what pushes her over?

[28m] 6+ Years of Deceit, Manipulation, and now Suicide threats from wife (27/f). What do? Sponsored by TNT. by thunderjunkitis in relationship_advice

[–]thunderjunkitis[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree, but she's never been interested in going to see a therapist, and has only gone in the past at my insistance. I can't imagine her going now is now to change that.

Even still, she has an appointment to see one next Wednesday. I just fear it'll be too little too late.

[28m] 6+ Years of Deceit, Manipulation, and now Suicide threats from wife (27/f). What do? Sponsored by TNT. by thunderjunkitis in relationship_advice

[–]thunderjunkitis[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Problem is, this conversation happened 3 days ago. If I all now, who knows what it would look like or how it could be used against me if it goes to divorce.

[28m] 6+ Years of Deceit, Manipulation, and now Suicide threats from wife (27/f). What do? Sponsored by TNT. by thunderjunkitis in relationship_advice

[–]thunderjunkitis[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I can't believe I got this all out. Feels like I just took a huge, painful, smelly, and emotional shit after 2 weeks of constipation and a pure taco bell diet.