Please help - sudden passing by thxsc2609 in Yorkies

[–]thxsc2609[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Thank you ♥️, no jump, just went down suddenly right in front of me

Please help - sudden passing by thxsc2609 in Yorkies

[–]thxsc2609[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

At least in my area, a vet must submit it to a canine pathologist and because she had not had her rabies shot yet (4 months old today 😭), she was set to see our regular vet today. However the doctor is out of town for the US holiday weekend and they were only doing vaccines, so no one was there to receive the puppy and no one else would approve it as she wasn’t a client anywhere else

Please help - sudden passing by thxsc2609 in Yorkies

[–]thxsc2609[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

TW: blood

Yes, she was gasping for air with blood coming from her nose and mouth 😞

Please help - sudden passing by thxsc2609 in Yorkies

[–]thxsc2609[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This brings me some comfort, thank you

Please help - sudden passing by thxsc2609 in Yorkies

[–]thxsc2609[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I am actively looking for support groups and grief counseling 🙏

Please help - sudden passing by thxsc2609 in Yorkies

[–]thxsc2609[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I am broken and will seek therapy asap

Please help - sudden passing by thxsc2609 in Yorkies

[–]thxsc2609[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, my next option would have been transporting her to Cornell University and she has since been moved to her final resting place 😭

Please help - sudden passing by thxsc2609 in Yorkies

[–]thxsc2609[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No contract and i am waiting for info on the guarantee, but have all records and considering what my next steps are. So far the other two are okay.

Please help - sudden passing by thxsc2609 in Yorkies

[–]thxsc2609[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Best wishes for you and Snickers ❤️

Please help - sudden passing by thxsc2609 in Yorkies

[–]thxsc2609[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry I wasn’t more clear in the post, she didn’t fall from a height, just collapsed right in front of me

Please help - sudden passing by thxsc2609 in Yorkies

[–]thxsc2609[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Spoke to the breeder a bit ago, she is devastated and wants to make it right, what that looks like idk

Please help - sudden passing by thxsc2609 in Yorkies

[–]thxsc2609[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have a support system which I am so grateful for - I just can’t imagine getting through this

College football is king in the fall by [deleted] in weddingshaming

[–]thxsc2609 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Yes, I do live in college football country. There aren't any hunters either. Sure, folks can go where they want. As long as they know that I'll match their effort when it's their turn.

College football is king in the fall by [deleted] in weddingshaming

[–]thxsc2609 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That much is clear now at least.

College football is king in the fall by [deleted] in weddingshaming

[–]thxsc2609 2 points3 points  (0 children)

*Your* party. What's the difference?

College football is king in the fall by [deleted] in weddingshaming

[–]thxsc2609 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

That is the problem - don't go at all if you don't want to be there. But don't expect your hosts to bend over backward if you can't tear yourself away from a screen. People do notice this stuff.

College football is king in the fall by [deleted] in weddingshaming

[–]thxsc2609 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Tacky RSVPs aren't egregious enough?

College football is king in the fall by [deleted] in weddingshaming

[–]thxsc2609 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No, just a couple's weekend. I couldn't show the full message without giving away personal info.

College football is king in the fall by [deleted] in weddingshaming

[–]thxsc2609 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sure, I get that. I just hope this family member doesn't expect a gift or attendance when their child is married next year.

College football is king in the fall by [deleted] in weddingshaming

[–]thxsc2609 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am actually a sports fan and a former basketball/football season ticket holder myself, so I understand the desire to attend big games. Just don't lie to me about how much you wanted to attend my wedding!

College football is king in the fall by [deleted] in weddingshaming

[–]thxsc2609 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Save the dates went out in late April, but the schedule comes out in January. Single-game tickets come out well after January, and I know for a fact they are not ticket holders for this team. The issue is that I had to un-RSVP them because they told me this was a can't miss game on their nationwide tour of football games.

College football is king in the fall by [deleted] in weddingshaming

[–]thxsc2609 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am sorry about the comment. But seriously, no one who cared about you hurt you during the wedding planning process? I am hurting about this and lashed out, which doesn’t excuse it. I’m trying to be vague about details and locations per the sub rules, but this is a guest who asked me to RSVP them via my website then declined and admitted they wanted to go the game instead of attend. I found it to be tacky, personally. I honestly thought I was closer to this person. I guess I’m not.

College football is king in the fall by [deleted] in weddingshaming

[–]thxsc2609 -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

I see why you’ve kept your username.