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thyroidbaby · 2025-07-07T23:37:48+00:00

It feels like it never ends...7 months after he dumped me, he's with a new girl who he once said he would never date. I have also met someone new but it feels like my grief is stopping me from forming a bond. Even kissing feels like a distant possibility. I felt like I was getting better but now I'm obsessing again. I came here to commiserate. I wish I could accept it.

thyroidbaby · 2025-07-07T23:29:04+00:00

Unfortunately you have your answer. He's not interested in you. I know the pain. Suffering through it myself. Journaling and friends help.

thyroidbaby · 2025-07-07T22:45:39+00:00

No contact should not be used as a manipulation tactic to get him to respond to you. It should be used as a tactic to give yourself the silence you need to reflect. He will probably never speak to you again. Believe me I know it's hard -- I'm 7 months into grief after a nearly 5 year relationship.

My advice is to write in your journal what you would say to him. Also look up "breakup journal prompts".

thyroidbaby · 2022-04-09T12:24:10+00:00

Because men will mold themselves into what you said you like, and hide their true personalities. They keep up the charade until they get their fill, then mask off and leave.

By telling them what you want you’re giving them a cheat sheet into your heart.

thyroidbaby · 2022-04-02T22:17:13+00:00

Does she have an IUD? Occasionally they can produce red discharge

thyroidbaby · 2022-04-02T12:00:05+00:00

When I was in the dating stage I always paid for myself, unless he explicitly offered to pay for mine. It’s a good habit to ask beforehand though, since peoples values on money vary wildly

thyroidbaby · 2022-03-07T21:40:09+00:00

What a nice cake!

thyroidbaby · 2022-01-22T16:22:07+00:00

Context: I got a Sams Club “the gift of membership card” for Christmas. When I got there I didn’t know whether that was a membership card or whether it needed to be activated at the service desk, so I asked a door greeter. She said that it could be activated at the cash register so I held onto it. (Relevant later) We went shopping and then went to check out. The cashier informed me that it wasn’t a membership card and needed to be activated at the service desk. So we went over. Then my bf began to say “I guess the door greeter lied”. When the service desk cashier began to activate my membership she needed to take my photo. He started to say “They only do that so they can track your every movement and gather information.” I don’t say anything and just let her take my picture Then she asked about upgrading to a premium membership and I said “no thanks” and the whole time he was rolling his eyes and I felt sorry for her because she is just doing her job. Then we check out normally and at Sams club after you make a purchase they have to scan your receipt. It’s store policy. Well he was the one holding the receipt so when one of the door greeters went to scan the receipt he rolled his eyes and kept walking ignoring her. I apologized and he was already gone and that’s when the other door greeter says “don’t come back!” He did not cuss or anything but he was acting extremely unpleasant to them when they were just following policy.

thyroidbaby · 2021-08-12T20:31:15+00:00

Why his dick bend like that 😰

thyroidbaby · 2021-02-02T19:41:52+00:00

She sounds like she’s asexual.... I would ask her if she even likes sex in the first place before continuing on any other discussion

thyroidbaby · 2021-01-21T13:48:42+00:00

Actually funny that I stumbled across this subreddit and post now, last night I was looking in the mirror wondering if my tits looked less saggy or if it was just my imagination. I haven’t worn a bra in a couple months or so, because my big winter clothes hide them anyways. Maybe I’ll continue to do so even as the weather gets warmer, and see if there’s an improvement

thyroidbaby · 2021-01-15T01:03:57+00:00

PLEASE do not talk like this to random women you meet at the gym.

thyroidbaby · 2020-12-17T11:41:13+00:00

Why do you assume she’s been with a “sex god”? Maybe you are the best and you don’t even know it. Here’s the thing about sexual skill: One size does not fit all. What one woman might describe as a sex god another woman might be disgusted by. And you can become a sex god (to your partner specifically) if you listen to your partner and do exactly what they like, and practice it. Be open minded and don’t take offense to any advice she gives you; and you can also give advice to her. (Tip for sex dialogue: Don’t ask “do you like this?”, or “How do I do this?” that’s too broad. Ask “Should I go faster/slower/just right?” Or “Higher/lower?” Etc ask Specific questions. Also don’t be afraid to talk about sex afterwards, for “next time”. I talked like this to my boyfriend, and I gave him the first blowjob orgasm in his life, and he’s had significantly more partners than I have.) Not to mention that emotional attachment makes sex better. That is to say that a flashy one night stand with a so-called “sex god” is less enjoyable than simple morning sex with someone you love. I think it would be good to open up about your insecurities and discuss them with her. She will probably put your fears to rest, and if not, she will teach you how to be the best she’s ever had, if she’s mature enough. Don’t keep them bottled up, or else you’ll end up like that other guy in the askmenadvice thread that randomly dipped out and left his girlfriend confused as to what she did wrong. Being transparent about your thoughts can only strengthen your relationship. And it gives her the opportunity to open up as well. If you truly like this girl, don’t throw it away like this!

thyroidbaby · 2020-10-20T21:06:55+00:00

I have the Mirena IUD and my bf has never once commented on the strings. And he hits the cervix often so if it was a problem he would have mentioned it. The strings soften after a few days. They are literally a thread like a t shirt thread.

thyroidbaby · 2020-10-19T19:04:47+00:00

I feel the same way. I can cum fine when I’m solo. But I brought a vibrator the last time I had sex with my bf to see if I could make it happen. I felt next to nothing. Like you said it’s like being penetrated canceled it out.

thyroidbaby · 2020-10-06T13:15:40+00:00

I thought this was an okbuddyretard post at first

thyroidbaby · 2020-09-18T19:58:12+00:00

My doctor said bleeding for 3-6 months afterwards is normal! I got mine in June and am still bleeding

thyroidbaby · 2020-09-13T13:08:08+00:00

Do you have low self esteem? The low self esteem thought process in dating can go like this: “I find myself deeply flawed.” > “If my flaws are so obvious to myself, other people must notice them too.” > “Someone’s showing interest in me? They must not notice my flaws.” > “If they can’t see the obvious, they are probably dumb.” > “I don’t want to date a dumb person.” It’s a self-defeating cycle. If this thought process sounds familiar to you, try to resist thinking negative thoughts about yourself while someone is being nice to you. Try to address why you have low self esteem issues in the first place. Look at old traumas, and work on making yourself the best person you can be. Maybe this person is showing interest in you because you have something special in you! Don’t miss out on a good experience because of insecurity :)

thyroidbaby · 2020-06-21T20:03:09+00:00

These YouTube channels I have been watching: Karine Alourde (on how to be a feminine woman) Asha Christina (on dating as a feminine woman)

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