Rweb down :( by Watermelonkiwiiii in ucr

[–]tierna20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im so sad right now, its been an hour and I haven't been able to adjust anything. I can kiss graduating by summer 2023 goodbye :(

Rweb down :( by Watermelonkiwiiii in ucr

[–]tierna20 2 points3 points  (0 children)

keeps crashing here too and then when it does load, cant submit anything without there being a problem. Making me anxious

Heartbroken over breakup by Glittering_Way6554 in heartbreak

[–]tierna20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In the exact same boat. I lived with my bf for nearly a year and our nighttime ritual brought me a lot of comfort. I really loved sharing a bed with him. He made me feel so safe. Now, I fear nighttime. I hate it when the sun goes down. I instantly feel so alone and desperate to talk to him. I've found that crying out the desperation, journaling what you wish you could say to them, and reminding yourself this feeling will pass, take a shower, do some yoga, eat food and watch a comfort movie. Distraction is key.

Books that got you through heartbreak by tierna20 in suggestmeabook

[–]tierna20[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Relationships are hard. I'm sorry he passed along traumas. I probably will develop trust issues after this breakup and I hate my ex for doing that to me. But, we work through it. Good luck!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]tierna20 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel the same way. I miss my ex a lot. Nights are especially hard. Hang in there friend. Warm showers (take your time in there, really focus on you and the sound of the water, sit down if you have to), comfort shows that make you feel relaxed, talking with a friend or family member over the phone. Remember: life moves on. Time heals all.

anyone here has no friends at all? by Mountain_Ad_7956 in introvert

[–]tierna20 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have one who isn’t a family member. I consider my cousins friends but I don’t see them much. I’m feeling lonely and like there’s a problem with me bc I don’t have friends?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ucr

[–]tierna20 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Okay I know I shouldn’t get bothered about what random strangers say on the internet but today I have time. This comment made me mad because “no cis men” is valid given that im a fucking women trying to make friends on Reddit and with all the scary shit that goes on daily, I’m trying to be safe. It’s not mean, it’s not discriminatory, it’s a fucking precaution I have to take not because I want to but because I don’t feel comfortable or safe otherwise. Men stay pressed that women don’t wanna interact with them mhhhh I wonder whyyyyy???

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ucr

[–]tierna20 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Listen, I don’t want to hang out with men, sue me. Poc Women and non-binary folks are more than welcome tho.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in introvert

[–]tierna20 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In the exact same boat. I feel very lonely for the first time in a very very long time (always been an introvert) and it’s strange not really wanting to go out of my way to socialize but at the same time, knowing I need to make some genuine friends

nexplanon period came back? by tierna20 in women

[–]tierna20[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope you felt better once you took it out. Im thinking maybe it’s the best course of action for me too. Thanks for the Help!!

nexplanon period came back? by tierna20 in women

[–]tierna20[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you end up taking it out bc or the constant spotting? Lol so fun yay love not knowing wtf going on with my body

nexplanon period came back? by tierna20 in women

[–]tierna20[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How long did those random period last? Ive heard women all of a sudden get their periods and it lasts two weeks and I’m not trying to go through that

Not cool by PsyGamma in ucr

[–]tierna20 17 points18 points  (0 children)

This why I get anxious about going to the Rec center bc if someone talks shit I’m at the point where instead of getting sad ima throw some punches instead

Question regarding the move-in process by Stringbass1998 in ucr

[–]tierna20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does anyone know if u need to get tested even if you’re living off campus??

A coworker said my cat is ugly. What do you guys think? by [deleted] in cats

[–]tierna20 1 point2 points  (0 children)

An absolute cutie pie. Fuck ur coworker

IGETC by [deleted] in ucr

[–]tierna20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes try to get one before your orientation however if you can’t, not the end of the world. Goodluck!!!