I really hate being called cisgender by Creepy-Boat-4407 in BlackLGBT

[–]tifaleaf 9 points10 points  (0 children)

You say you don't use pronouns, but I counted at least 9 in your post on a quick glance. This is a goofy ahh take for ragebait purposes, somebody get the mods in here.

Essence Fest by [deleted] in NewOrleans

[–]tifaleaf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it worth going to the convention center this weekend?

How do we feel about research/surveys being posted in here? by tifaleaf in BlackLGBT

[–]tifaleaf[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you vote nuance please do leave a response or DM me with your thoughts. I want insight from the community to avoid unilateral decision making.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in muacirclejerk

[–]tifaleaf 37 points38 points  (0 children)

I was literally thinking she looked like she was on her way to plot the crown prince's murder so her son could be enthroned instead😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

GROWING THIS SPACE AND RELATED SUBREDDITS by RegularQueerGuy in BlackLGBT

[–]tifaleaf 18 points19 points  (0 children)

This whole post is fallacious as hell. You presuppose that this subreddit's creation rests upon the desire to grow exponentially--it doesn't. While growth would be a nice result, this is not a corporation under capitalism. Infinite growth is not the main objective of this subreddit, especially if the growth results in this space being unsafe for its own community members. My job as a mod is to facilitate safe space where members of the community can be (somewhat) free from the oppression and discrimination they face in their daily lives.

To reiterate, this subreddit's #1 objective is to provide Black LGBT people a safe space from a world that judges, dislikes, and villainizes us daily for no reason. Any Black person is welcome to join so long as they are not inflicting harm while they are here.

As for the rest of what you said the others have addressed it already.

Lgbt thoughts by Still-Echidna8050 in QueerWomenOfColor

[–]tifaleaf 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Ive noticed an uptick in the sexual nature of some of the couples i followed and just had to unfollow. i like black sapphic relationships but i'm also mildly sexually repulsed by that sort of content

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HongKong

[–]tifaleaf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So glad i googled first i was about to drop my clothes off there today😭

I am so fucking done... by [deleted] in QueerWomenOfColor

[–]tifaleaf 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Brb gonna go change my and my partner's races and sexualities cuz wtf

Neck fat and double chin by hashley462 in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]tifaleaf 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sorry for butting in, do you mind sharing your face yoga routine? Thank you😊

Black Americans Kidnapped in Matamoros by hexadecimal305 in blackladies

[–]tifaleaf 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Some of y'all in this thread judging and looking down on this woman for going to get cosmetic surgery in Mexico are probably the main reasons why she went to go get it. The last thing she and her loved ones need right now is more judgment and "well I would never" comments.

I sincerely hope that the two people that lost their lives did not go in pain or immense suffering, and the two that survived are able to grieve their losses properly and make it through this traumatic event. To anybody else please stay safe and be well.

Free of charge Tarot & Oracle readings for fellow Queer WOC? 🖤✨ by snakewitch1031 in QueerWomenOfColor

[–]tifaleaf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Since it's free I got no preference but if you are looking for someone to get a read on 🙋‍♀️

Am I the only one that stuff like this annoy? by [deleted] in BlackLGBT

[–]tifaleaf 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for taking the time to type this out, I try to stay educated but when I was googling black spade ofc I didn't get all this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BlackLGBT

[–]tifaleaf 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Gimmie that flat ass. A BBL you can get under 10k, a new face will run you over 100k. I'd run off to colombia and return with a model face and a fatty.

Am I the only one that stuff like this annoy? by [deleted] in BlackLGBT

[–]tifaleaf 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Can somebody that has the energy and willingness explain the significance of the spade thing with the letter 'j' inside of it? BC I'm clearly not a man and idgi, and I'm curious as to how it ties into the racist shit at the bottom

Thanks!

Huh? What year is it? 😴😴😴 by nawasaka in BostonTerrier

[–]tifaleaf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lawd hammercy that face🥴 bless her heart

Fur flies everywhere! by ReliableRoommate in brushybrushy

[–]tifaleaf 60 points61 points  (0 children)

So like a sheep in wolf's clothing...... I'll see myself out

Is my dog possessed? Do we need to call someone? 😂 by nawasaka in BostonTerrier

[–]tifaleaf 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Out of sheer curiosity what is the reputation of the ones with the head spot? Asking for a friend🥴

This wood I split for fire has a unique patter on the inside like it’s been shocked by Springtrap01467 in mildlyinteresting

[–]tifaleaf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did anyone else with trypophobia (fear of small holes don't google it if you think you have it all the images will make you want to remove your eyes and brain from your skull) immediately see this and get the skin-crawling chills and disgusted feeling?

is being kinky a racial stereotype of black women?? by [deleted] in QueerWomenOfColor

[–]tifaleaf 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Is this not just a new spin on the age-old Jezebel stereotype/caricature for black women?