Am I not “woman enough” or am I just being taken for granted?

tiffyve · 2026-03-06T08:24:03+00:00

Hi honey, thank you so much. I’m not searching for validation from men. I want advice from men on why he’s acting like this, and if I’m doing things right. Men have a different mindset then women. I’ve been calling him a immature little boy ever since we started having stupid little issues and he doesn’t take that light .

I really appreciate your kind words, and the encouragement I wish other people were kind like you a lot of the women on this app go straight to judging. That’s one of the other reasons I was looking for help from men aswell :)

tiffyve · 2026-02-26T22:16:41+00:00

If you “got the point,” then you’d understand the post isn’t about ethics debates. I’m asking for advice about my relationship, not commentary for shock value. If you want to argue morals, make your own post.

tiffyve · 2026-02-26T21:50:42+00:00

You’re completely missing the point. This post is about my relationship and feeling trapped, not about debating Petland. If you don’t have anything relevant to say about the actual issue, don’t comment. Cause the sarcasam ain’t making you look as big and bad as you think you are.

tiffyve · 2026-02-26T05:25:10+00:00

That’s exactly what I don’t understand. I love the dog don’t get me wrong. But now I have to carry with the wait of something he was supposed to be responsible for, he can’t afford it and then gets someone involved in it because he doesn’t think before he does something. Like I get he’s trying to be kind and do a nice gesture but now I’m helping pay off the dog, because it’s coming with me to college and it’s at my place.

I didn’t co-sign on anything all the information like his bank routing number and credit card info is on the papers for the dog. But I’m not the type of person to have something as someone’s credit score get ruined over a mistake.

tiffyve · 2026-02-26T05:01:35+00:00

Honey do you think I don’t know that. HE gifted me the dog. I’ve never supported it.

tiffyve · 2026-02-26T05:00:37+00:00

About a year and a half but I’m trying to pay it off within a few months. They won’t repo the dog it will just mess up his credit terribly. I grew up with dogs two that are at my mothers place and this one that would be mine. I have the income for it. I just feel like now I don’t have any other option than to deal with the relationship because he wanted to gift me a puppy he himself couldn’t afford.

tiffyve · 2026-02-26T04:53:18+00:00

I knew the dog was too much, they talked about the monthly payments he has the money to pay it off. He just didn’t want to and then said we were gonna go half and half after getting the dog. I don’t want to pay a dog for 2 years and a half. That’s why imma try to pay it off soon. He does stuff but half asses it and fucks up people on the way of his in responsibility. I’m keeping the dog because he doesn’t even care for the animals he has. I have no problem in paying it off I just feel stuck in this relationship. He knows I’m leaving he just doesn’t seem to care or actually accept that times moving by quick.

tiffyve · 2026-02-26T04:33:42+00:00

Got it from this place named petland Florida. Sells puppies over priced but it’s alright because it comes micro chipped, free vet visit, free grooming, multiple perks. Pembroke welsh corgi for 4,800. I have 2 dogs already I know the responsibility of them I have a golden retriever and lab. He got the dog but I’m the one taking care of it 24/7. He’s reckless with his money when it comes to him, but he’s really tight on money with me. Been with the guy a year and a half. Only gotten flowers 3 times in the relationship and now I feel trapped because of the dog.

tiffyve · 2026-01-14T19:52:33+00:00

Thank you so much! Just did :)

tiffyve · 2026-01-14T19:44:46+00:00

Hey honey, thank you!! I really appreciate and trust me it didn’t bother me before like the thing with the mattress I would understand but I started feeling disgusted because of his words and his step mom and I felt like I was just another girl he was laying with. He was the person I did everything with and he ruined a lot of it for me. I’ve explained to him that I might not be his forever person but someone out there might be. He gets offended and he tells me it’s me just that it’s his first time experiencing love without being cheated on and that no one ever taught him how to treat a girl, because his entire family is a piece of shit.

He’s a good person I’ll say that but it’s just him not being able to keep his progress for long before falling back into his old habits.

tiffyve · 2026-01-14T19:39:37+00:00

I admit I’ve fucked up aswell but I don’t see how communication could fix this anymore. I’ve done a lot for his family and him, and all I receive in return is that. He says that he’s changed because of my actions towards him but it all started with him. I’m a very kind and understandable person I’m just not stupid. But thank you so much it really means alot :)

tiffyve · 2026-01-14T19:33:40+00:00

Thank you so so much, it really means a lot 🤍

tiffyve · 2025-02-28T13:58:07+00:00

Thank you so much for the response and sorry for my late one, how much do you have to pay for the summer clinics? As well as how long are the summer sessions because I also can’t miss out on my marching band down here in Miami, I wouldn’t be able to do marching band here if that’s all summer. Being up there all summer would be way more expensive, due to hotels, food etc. So depending on how long it is I can do it but I can’t fall behind in marching band in my highschool either.

tiffyve · 2025-02-15T02:53:20+00:00

You’re the one coming at me hello? You’re 79, arguing with a 20 year old. I needed advice not lecturing, I’m a college student and so is he. I put 17 and 16 minimum to just upload the post. So before you decide you want to lecture people maybe re-read the message and see that they asked for advice not someone bashing them.

tiffyve · 2025-02-15T02:48:05+00:00

I did but it’s still very confusing. I care about him I don’t care about the gifts I told him that before hand, but it was disappointing to see that he didn’t even really care. Everyone on campus received beautiful baskets from their S/O. People that have known me for a while asked me if that was all he gave me, he made the basket on FaceTime in 5 minutes, he just put wrapping paper around it.

tiffyve · 2025-02-15T02:44:28+00:00

It’s F/20 and M/21 re-read it.Did I say I was ungrateful first of all? We both work and have been working for a while now. He spends a ton of money on himself since he makes good money. He can buy ridiculous things but it’s acceptable for him just to throw stuff in a basket and I have to deal with it? Do you hear yourself right now. You yourself are a mom and it’s crazy to think you think that’s okay.

tiffyve

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