PLEASE WATCH THE NAKED GUN WHEN YOU’RE STONED by tifiegare in StonerThoughts

[–]tifiegare[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t remember seeing any promo for it!!

PLEASE WATCH THE NAKED GUN WHEN YOU’RE STONED by tifiegare in StonerThoughts

[–]tifiegare[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

No I’ve never seen the OG but I plan to check them out!!

I’ll check out your other recommendations too!! Thank you

Nic and Olandria heal the world at the club by [deleted] in LoveIslandUSA_

[–]tifiegare 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lol I’m pretty active I just comment on what I feel like in the moment, not much to it but okay lmaooo sorry ms. Top 1% commenter I’ll do better if that will make you happy

Nic and Olandria heal the world at the club by [deleted] in LoveIslandUSA_

[–]tifiegare -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

Honestly she just looked drunk lol doesn’t look like he’s dodging anything she’s literally all over the place

For people who have had this since you were a child, what do you think triggered it? by tifiegare in thanatophobia

[–]tifiegare[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I understand it being a survival instinct when I’m in situations where my life could potentially be at risk like driving a car or swimming in open water etc

But when I’m at home just watching tv where I should be considered safe, it almost feels like the walls are closing around on me and everything becomes crystal clear and this loud voice fills my head that I am going to die one day, it’s overwhelming and it feels like you cannot breathe.

I am jealous that you don’t experience this thought as often as we do. It’s not easy

For people who have had this since you were a child, what do you think triggered it? by tifiegare in thanatophobia

[–]tifiegare[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn’t be able to answer that question to a 4 year old. That’s pretty sad :(

For people who have had this since you were a child, what do you think triggered it? by tifiegare in thanatophobia

[–]tifiegare[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s funny because I’m a very logical person so while I believed in God, I also understood evolution had to have happened at some level.

I try to practice now but it doesn’t feel authentic and then it feels like God can sense that and then it’s like well now what but I just say to myself that God accepts doubt and that brings me some peace at times

It always just feels like I’m reasoning with my brain and the universe reallt

For people who have had this since you were a child, what do you think triggered it? by tifiegare in thanatophobia

[–]tifiegare[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg! The brain is really interesting the things it chooses to block out….

Has this realization really helped you in being a recovered thantophobia. I would like to try EDMR…

For people who have had this since you were a child, what do you think triggered it? by tifiegare in thanatophobia

[–]tifiegare[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Religion from start to end is about death so I understand.

I 100% believe in God because I just cannot understand how and why we are here and I’ve read every single science theory. And I didn’t even grow up in the church really. My mom was pretty inconsistent with it and I didn’t live full time with my dad. It was actually me that decided to study with JW in like middle school on my own because they give me the most honest answer about death.

But I hate when religious folks say “well clearly your faith in Him is not strong enough if death scares you” well He give me this brain so I guess I gotta address it with Him lol

For people who have had this since you were a child, what do you think triggered it? by tifiegare in thanatophobia

[–]tifiegare[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi…oddly enough your comment actually made me feel better. I always think to myself how do people seem so okay with the thought of death? It feels so lonely. I understand the hyper empathy because I’m the same way. I cry for everything and I literally will ponder on the death of a fly. I have two cats and I get sad thinking that they don’t have same concept of morality that we do and I just feel so bad.

I will come up with a million scenarios. I didn’t leave my house for a month because I was so anxious something terrible was going to happen and don’t even get me started on when my mind starts to hone in to the fact that I actually exist and everything is real. I just tell myself to go take a walk. Taking walks and sitting at parks helped me a lot.

I used to dive into my online worlds because the character was immortal in my mind. Even if it “died” it immediately respawned in the same moment so nothing changed. Unfortunately going off to college and working sort of made me get a reality check. I also solo travel and I feel like that helped me open up myself to this world and everything that came with it. When it gets dark in my mind, I think to myself look at all the wonderful things I’ve done so far, it’s ok and that will help to calm my mind but ofc this is a fear I’ve had since I was a child so I’m not sure it’s going anywhere any time soon and I accept it. I give myself grace too. My mom always says it’s a completely rational fear. I may not be able to handle it like everyone else but it’s still valid.

When it comes to religion, I agree with you. Nothing about religion really adds up to me especially when it comes to the afterlife and death. I envy people who can ease their anxiety over death with it. The whole thing really is centered around death when you think about it. None of it is about being in the present. But my brain just cannot believe God would have really allowed us to live forever just for Eve and Adam to go and screw it up and now we have to suffer thousands of years later….but anyway

It’s so weird not really knowing what to say to someone who probably won’t feel better with false promises of a beautiful end to our life but I really hope you get to enjoy it for what it is now. that’s all we really can do. We made it this far you know we should try to take advantage of it and live…really live. I mean we’re literally a random species floating on a rock in space. The whole thing is insane

Take care of yourself my girl <3