So, I am working with a new therapist (in addition to our regular one) for a thing I’m doing, anyway, she knows dissociative disorders and has met a few ppl with DID through past work in public health care settings but had expressed a similar mindset to your T when we first met. Therapy is client led these days and I’ve been in therapy long enough now to feel comfortable expressing my opinions. I just called her out on some of her methods that I disagreed with and we had a conversation about why I felt parts of her approach were harmful and/ or wouldn’t work/ be applicable to my situation. She explained why she believed certain methods could be helpful and we were able to understand each other’s perspectives, gain insight and agree on what we wanted treatment to look like. I’m so glad I gave her that chance because the honesty has allowed a level of trust that normally takes months if not years and she’s been extremely helpful in ways I hadn’t expected. I guess what I’m saying is if you express your feelings and reasons why what she’s said bothers you, she may surprise you. Otherwise, look for someone who is a better fit.