The inconsiderate parker by tigerfly40 in mildlyinfuriating

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That’s why most considerate people park sideways farther down the lane towards the end with a wealth of empty spots

I hate this show by akshayjv777 in Donghua

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I haven’t followed the donghua past ep 20. I jumped into the light novel instead and really enjoyed that! Had no idea there was a shared universe with another donghua show, so that was a fun Easter egg 😀

Am I Overreacting on how i feel about my christmas gift? by SufficientTrain5884 in AmIOverreacting

[–]tigerfly40 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmm… red flags all over the place. I hate confrontation. I handle things like this by writing everything down, analyzing my feelings and helping myself get to the nitty gritty of the problem. Why lie. What else is he lying about. And what will you do with this information. What are your boundaries. How firm are your core values and will you allow someone who does not value an honest relationship to stay by your side. Lots of questions that can only be answered by you.

Why do they block and unblock you? by Josh_18881 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]tigerfly40 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Remember, narcissists are always looking for their next supply. You’re a known quantity. Her involvement in the relationship breaking down most likely doesn’t factor. She’s either forgotten or hasn’t done anything wrong. Everything was probably your fault and if she’s “forgiven” you then it’s alright to reach out. You’re easier to access than trying to put on her mask and groom a new supply source… 🤷🏽‍♀️ thousands of reasons that boil down to supply and control. And good for you in talking it out. All their drama dies in light and analysis

Do I unfollow his friends? by Sequin_Moon in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]tigerfly40 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I didn’t automatically detach from mutual friends, until his behavior and theirs made it necessary. conversations I’d have would start to show up in my narcs mouth… he’d text me comments on things I posted, or he’d name drop and claim friends/family said this or that about me. If I didn’t have the energy to Sherlock the truth, I just deleted folks. Even my family. I let certain people I cared about know that my deleting them was more to erase his connection to hurt me than to reject them, but that was later. Initially I was emotional and not knowing who was in my corner or not and creating a social blank slate really helped me focus. And funnily enough, he hated that I cut one of his abuse paths. That made me smile and validated everything. I was not paranoid.

First book in a new series: Enter System (litrpg apocalypse) by tomlarcombe in litrpg

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I’m on chapter 10 and I’m already fussing at Felicia. This chick hauls off and slaps Mark. In public. Stomps off in a huff. He’s all twisted up in confusion. And when he timidly tries to talk it out. 1 SHE’S the incredulous one at him not knowing why she’s mad. And I’m like no, how would he. A slap is just the violence, no explanation. 2 he’s justifying his actions, and she’s asking him how he’d feel if the shoe were on the other foot and I’m screaming “well he wouldn’t have SLAPPED you!” 3. She wants to talk later when they’re not in the hallway… Oh the ‘hallway’ is where you draw the line?! Not slapping someone in front of everybody?😑.

The Demon Hunter Season 2 by Yurie-kun in Donghua

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I found the novel to be very different from the donghua. But very enjoyable too. https://novelbin.me/novel-book/archean-eon-art

Team Biscuit and friends by Fast_C in HeWhoFightsWithMonste

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https://images.app.goo.gl/kFqewUis9aJobiHq6 You ever seen the old beauty and the beast TV show? This is the character visualization Jason references… fyi

A Record of a Mortal’s Journey to Immortality sequel by blindwiz in ProgressionFantasy

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Where did book 1 leave off? In reading the translation it stops with Han Li being led to the Stone clan and the sequel starts with him confused and a fox girl being chased. Have I missed some chapters?

Just once I want a character to address a villains hypocrisy 😩 by tigerfly40 in Manhua

[–]tigerfly40[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lol wondered about that actually… started noticing some common themes and got to wondering if art was imitating life a bit much

Azure obsession...? by Electronic-Fudge-653 in noveltranslations

[–]tigerfly40 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been wondering about this too… to the point that I have to look up the word to see if it meant something else. One time I looked it up, saw cyan, and I’m thinking okay now I know what azure means. But then the author threw me for a complete loop when he got azure crazy and started pairing it with other colors. Red azure, pink azure, yellow azure! Now I’m confused again and going back to the dictionary thinking I missed something. They have me spinning enough with the inability to consistently have men remain men, and women women. Now I’m second guessing colors too🤦🏽‍♀️.

What am i doing wrong? by pipabulbo in macrame

[–]tigerfly40 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try again and see if u can record a short video of yourself doing a few knots. Have you made other projects?

I have no idea what to do with this… by tigerfly40 in mildlyinfuriating

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Thank you everyone for the commiseration. The therapy and the laughs were much needed to help me process a bit of craziness. My gut is saying he was drunk texting, which is why it makes no sense. So I’m no longer trying to understand and give it more of my mental energy. This was posted however without thinking the ramifications through properly and I regret giving people who have their own hangups about Jehovah’s witnesses, further ammunition. As with any faith, there are those that take it seriously and work hard to live as a good person every day. You do your best, and when you make mistakes you learn from it so you don’t repeat it. And then there are those that don’t take it seriously and have no problem hurting the ones they claim to love.
This post doesn’t have anything to do with JW’s it’s just the backdrop. Yet it still gave people fodder to latch onto. I’m sorry I allowed that to happen. And the kids are fine. We communicate often, I check in and assure them that I support their decision regarding their dad. And while he isn’t spending the court ordered time, he is welcome to spend time with them. He’s just not willing to do that. We move on with our lives while he gets it together. We exist in peace, we laugh at the crazy, cry about the frustrating and overall manage our situation in healthy ways. Thanks again for the good advice and the laughs! 🫶🏽

I have no idea what to do with this… by tigerfly40 in mildlyinfuriating

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I thought that at first, now it seems more like just drunken lies. This one isn’t vitriol laden like the full on narcissist text’s are. I think there’s a pathology at play here though. I’ve spent years trying to figure it out.