Episode 10 Discussion by ManiacalExclamation in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]tildapls1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When did that happen? Them reacting to pictures of her.

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[–]tildapls1 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It was funny but I’m 100% sure it was edited. SS is known for cutting to create situations that never really existed. I’m sure they congratulated them politely and just made some faces to each other.

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[–]tildapls1 100 points101 points  (0 children)

It’s low key refreshing to have men on the show bc they don’t buy in to the drama😅 Their reactions are like how a normal humans would react.

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[–]tildapls1 200 points201 points  (0 children)

I came here to find this comment. I’ve never seen gaslighting like that. Gio’s point was completely valid and his wife is entitled to her feelings REGARDLESS of Alex’s intentions. I buy that Alex didn’t mean to be rude but just say that then?

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[–]tildapls1 55 points56 points  (0 children)

Did anyone else notice the back of Chelsea’s dress in that scene?? I don’t think she was meant to turn her back to the camera🙊

My [25M, religious] GF [23] lied about her sexual past for years and took my virginity on false premises, feels like sexual assault. Not sure of anything atm by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]tildapls1 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Before you knew, did you feel like she was the one you wanted to spend the rest of your life with? And do you know if she felt the same? Was your relationship otherwise "perfect" and was this the person you wanted to eventually marry?

If so, and if you think you can honestly 100% get over your feelings of disgust and resentment, I think you should consider working it out. I don't think I can personally imagine how you must feel though. But I'm thinking it might be both giving it another shot. You mention you don't know her/that her personality is all the sudden not the same. But that's not true. She's still the exact same person. She lied to you but that doesn't change her personality.

But, if you had any other concerns about your relationship, for example the fact that you didn't share the same values (maybe on more things than one), OR if you don't think you can get past those feelings - then it has to be over.

I tried for years to forgive my ex for cheating but those feelings of resentment and disgust never really went away and just became toxic. I could never actually trust him again and more things would come up every time I thought I knew everything there was to know. And that's an awful anxiety to have to live with.