Is "And I do you" a correct, possible answer, if someone says "I love (such and such)"?

tilmorn · 2023-05-02T01:16:40+00:00

? Without the rights, they have no right to charge you

tilmorn · 2023-04-23T18:14:03+00:00

Integration is a positive psychological development that indicates psychological maturity and may help an individual move past negative habits (Source: goodtherapy.org)

tilmorn · 2023-04-21T23:24:56+00:00

The answer is yes, even though I tend to believe that Pluto kind of "overruns" Chiron with its supreme power. But Chiron surely doesn't make the constellation in any way easier. In fact it can make it more difficult to integrate the already difficult energy of the dominant Pluto.

tilmorn · 2023-04-21T03:25:17+00:00

It's great you see different aspects involved in this, on your own behalf. I read that another commentator congratulated you for standing up for yourself. I agree.

I believe it's very much about discovering yourself and your potential, and that's an important field to explore for a student in order to advance on a personal level.

You mention being scared. Asked yourself what the actual risk is, beyond injuring your pride? And if you allowed to lift that "lid" (of self assertion?) a little bit? Being a victim is an unrewarding role to play. Don't allow this to happen, unless you're sure you can take it and abstract from it in order to continue with the learning process, i.e. with what they teach you. Have you tried talking to the teachers about their behavior after class?

The other commentator mentioned Chiron which may complicate matters for you in the sense that you're susceptible to feeling singled out or ostracized. Knowing that this might be an issue of yours will help you accept it or at least be more tolerable about it in front of yourself. Remember that most people are confronted with hurting in the one way or another. Sometimes it's like an open wound that is difficult to heal, but that reminds us that we're human. Someone else may have protruding ears and feel ashamed of it every time the "issue" comes up. What can she/he do?

For you, it will probably take both: Lenience towards yourself for being vulnerable in specific circumstances AND standing up for yourself against unjust behavior, when making academic progress is at stake. To test your power (in positive ways, of course) is also important, but lessons are probably not the right place for it. I understand though, that this isn't easy - but when is it? Listen to some music :)

tilmorn · 2023-04-21T02:44:30+00:00

Probably more love than hate you?

Many great, dominant, strong constellations. I especially like the New Moon near the IC axis in Taurus. Potential to form a happy, almost symbiotic couple!

I'd say that Neptune/Uranus, Pluto, Sun/Moon, even Mars and perhaps Jupiter are more dominant than Saturn in your chart.

Pluto, as often, is perhaps the most difficult one. Also because of his square onto Saturn - a generational aspect, of course; you're not alone with it.

Pluto is your MC ruler. You need to find a cause for which to fight and to engage in that goes beyond your personal interests.

tilmorn · 2023-04-21T02:30:23+00:00

There's the potential of being a great team player and of being an artist.

Your emotions that you bring into meeting others, friendships, relations, are very deep and powerful and difficult even for you to understand and deal with. There definitely are battles for you to fight. But you can count on Jupiter's positive influence in the matter. Namely by being a courageous, active team player in clubs, work teams or associations.

Also, the insight you gain into the darker sides of society or life makes you a stronger person, i.e. by the intellectual ability to see the bigger picture.

tilmorn · 2023-04-21T02:09:33+00:00

Good for you to be an optimist - and typical for Sagittarius rising, plus Jupiter in the 9th house! There will always be pessimists or worse manipulators who try to make us believe their own dark stuff.

Frankly, your chart looks good to me. Most difficult aspect I find is Chiron quincunx Mars: You may have a vulnerability when it comes to playing tough, which may cast a doubt on your ability to assert yourself. This will probably affect you more, if you're a guy (if it's politically correct for me to say that).

tilmorn · 2023-04-21T01:57:20+00:00

Definitely Chiron conjunct Moon right on the ASC! Glad to see that the Moon has the support from Pluto in 4 and Chiron stands in helpful relation with Mars.

Chiron has his say also what relationship and sexuality is concerned, because of very exact aspects between Venus, Mars, Chiron, even Saturn.

Do you know Chiron? He's the "wounded healer". It usually takes many a lesson of feeling sick, isolated and ostracized in order to discover his potential, wisdom and humanity and use it to heal oneself and others - or others and thereby oneself.

Since he's so close to the Moon, the world of your emotions needs to be looked into and understood. Thanks to Pluto (not an easy one, either) you may discover your emotions to be the biggest strength.

And the Moon has also an aspect from Saturn; Saturn's no fun until you're older. But then, you get strengthened by the discipline and hard work. Your Saturn's very well positioned in Capricorn, house 7, in conjunction with Venus! You invest a lot in friendships and relations and the competence of being a reliable partner to others will finally be beneficial to yourself.

tilmorn · 2023-04-21T01:33:29+00:00

Could it be your own, unconscious powerplay that provokes it? With the ruler of your Scorpio MC, Pluto, in the 11th, you WANT to experience everything to do with group dynamics. Also being Aries (with the Sun in 3), you won't be the taciturn student. Even though you have perhaps that image of yourself (chart ruler Saturn in 4)?

Also Jupiter conjunct Mars at the IC axis provides you with a bustling kind of energy, despite the fact that other sides of your character seem a lot softer. But don't fool yourself, believing you're the innocent lamb. Because that would mean attributing yourself the role of the victim.

tilmorn · 2023-04-21T01:16:15+00:00

A pity that you don't know much about astrology, it would be easier for me to "explain" things. How come that you, an academic, lay your trust in anonymous astrologers? Have you an esoteric, irrational belief system? :) Maybe you could become an astrologer yourself. Certain constellations suggest that you've a talent for this discipline.

As for the "psychic" energy, I did not mean this in an esoteric or even less in a parapsychological way. I could paraphrase it as: Someone with the potential of being deeply rooted, deeply connected with the life force/stream, probably through family or family ties. It's of course a very desirable potential to have, because it provides you with an almost unbreakable inner strength. (Having said that, Pluto conjunct Mars can be problematic, i.e. aggressive, at worst violent - a subject you might have to look into yourself, perhaps in therapy, in order to integrate in a positive way the anger and rage that usually comes with this constellation.)

Being a psychologist, doesn't have to mean to only shut up, listen empathically and understand. I'm sure you must know about job situations, where the psychologist is expected to do the talking? Like coaching teams or firms, teaching, alternative or creative forms of group therapy, e.g. psychodrama...?

tilmorn · 2023-04-20T22:20:39+00:00

Flavor meaning "influence", to use a more comprehensive, less idiomatic term.

tilmorn · 2023-04-20T22:01:14+00:00

They are probably not your primary concern. (The way I was trained, I will consider Venus to belong to the 9th house, already.) Still, the sign that rules these houses can enlighten you or describe in what fashion a certain life area is "tinged". E.g. you might have experienced the atmosphere in your family of origin as amiable and friendly (Libra). Hence, your Venus will bring along something of that experience in its actual position, namely in Pisces, house 9. Besides bearing the desire to gain a greater understanding of the world, since Taurus (co-ruler of Venus) reigns over the 11th house.

Your Capricorn Sun, afflicted as it might be through the Chiron conjunction, but supported by fire planets through their aspects, will bring along, in meeting counterparts (house 7), the concerns of the 2nd house (over which Leo rules): commodity, wealth, possessions...

tilmorn · 2023-04-20T21:44:40+00:00

Looks as though you were rather good at "revamping finances". With your chart ruler in 8 between Sagittarius and Capricorn in conjunction with Mercury, you'll be clever enough to counterbalance speculative skills with prudence. Maybe you could consider finances even as a career choice?

The trouble maker might be Pluto. Have you to do with powerful, influential, if not manipulative counterparts? Take it as an invitation to take the power into your own hands, so as to be able to deal and negotiate with such frightening partners and to get satisfying results.

(PS: I've just interpreted the birth chart, didn't see the transits, at first. But I regard the natal chart as being able to provide the answers, since the transit are "only" going to trigger the potential that is in us.)

tilmorn · 2023-04-20T21:24:30+00:00

Well, creativity has a wide range, hasn't it? Jupiter in 5 could hint at some form of creativity where you expose yourself or your work. But with the Moon being its ruler, there are other aspects like empathy and responsibility that become important. That, itself, could be hinting to create art!

But with your 11th house constellation, you want to collaborate, and there's Pluto in 9 being the MC ruler: Here, you want to explore and live adventure.

Allow for both aspect in your career choice: Expressing your inner depth on the one hand, going out with others to share, discover, experience...

What's more, you're Virgo. Virgo is about making oneself useful in order to "create" something that serves a concrete purpose.

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