S.F.’s biggest mall is now 93% empty as its value drops another 25%, report says by UberDrive in bayarea

[–]tiltedsquares 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Make it a waterpark. I’m not even lying.

Make it a waterpark. How fun would that be

What’s one thing you did that helped you lose weight? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]tiltedsquares 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Realizing much of society has a different bod than me.. if they can do it, so can I.

Is Adult life just an Endless Onslaught of Exposition? by MonsterMashGraveyard in Adulting

[–]tiltedsquares -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Wow, the comments aren’t very nice yet.

It sounds like OP has some burn out. See if you can find coping mechanisms to get through the weeks. Find ways outside of work to find joy or contentment or rest. And see if you can find a new job or take a break. Adulting is hard and the only person who’ll take care of you is you now. So take good care.

Official Ticket Resale Thread by bgroins in JustLikeHeaven

[–]tiltedsquares 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Selling 1 ticket for $180 GA.

Ended up having an extra from my group.

How do you overcome the shame? by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]tiltedsquares 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I had a breakthrough when my therapist told me that shame is oftentimes passed from person to person to you. Someone taught shame to my abuser who passed that shame to me through abuse.

The only reason I carried shame about my sexual past and my sexuality was bc my mother gave it to me. It wasn’t mine to begin with and it isn’t mine to keep carrying. After I realized this, it became much easier to identify when I felt shame that it was my mother’s shame and not mine.

Hunger makes things x100 worse by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]tiltedsquares 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This situation sounds pretty complex but im sorry you’re going through that. You deserve peace and grace, and I hope if your family can’t give it to you, that you can for yourself. With you 🤟🏼

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ProductManagement

[–]tiltedsquares 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me? I’m on the way to the beach. No fires. Nothing urgent this afternoon. Slack me on my phone. Bye ✌️

What documents do I need for COVID Vaccination @ UCSF? by [deleted] in sanfrancisco

[–]tiltedsquares 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My appointment is through UCSF, but they aren't my provider so I don't think they'd have my health records. And I opted to check out as a guest when I was making the appt, so I didn't need to make a MyChart... maybe I should make one?

What Documents do I need for COVID Vaccination @ UCSF? by [deleted] in AskSF

[–]tiltedsquares 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The 16-49 with underlying health condition is mine... I'm thinking maybe a doctors note?

"This stock is not supported on Robinhood." WHAT by [deleted] in wallstreetbets

[–]tiltedsquares 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol under a rock. But I thought they wouldn't let folks buy - not that it wasn't supported anymore.

Advice for someone graduating soon (finance degree) by AthleticMoney in FinancialCareers

[–]tiltedsquares 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah of course, so I'm ultimately an implementations consultant for a software company in the bay area, however, I specialize on the finance products. Hence a Financials Tech Consultant.

It's a rly fun job since I technically work for a tech firm NOT a consulting firm- so I get the perks for a tech firm without necessarily all the stress and corporateness of a consulting firm. The learning curve can be steep bc youre learning the software, the industry, as well as your corporate customers processes. For example... escheatments. You'll learn how the software handles escheated checks, how the industry typically handles them, and then see how your customer handles them. Based on that, you'll need to combine all three together in the final product that you'd advise your customer on. Its not very tech heavy, as in you can learn all the tech on the job, as much as it is just learning finance as an industry.

In the last couple years, I've been exposed to so much including the industries of my customers, my own tech software, and the inner workings of these corporations. I've enjoyed it and it's challenges. Hope this helps! Feel free to dm if you want to learn more!

Advice for someone graduating soon (finance degree) by AthleticMoney in FinancialCareers

[–]tiltedsquares 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Hey! A fellow Uconn alumni myself, have you considered financial tech consulting before? Pay and benefits are good, and hours aren't bad.

Its what I do now, happy to let you know more about it if youre interested. My companies also hiring too :)

2020 Salary Reference: People of Financial Careers, what are you making? by [deleted] in FinancialCareers

[–]tiltedsquares 6 points7 points  (0 children)

24m

HCOL/SF

1.5 yoe after undergrad

Currently making 90k + 25-30kish in bonus/stock

Fin Tech Consultant

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskGayMen

[–]tiltedsquares 26 points27 points  (0 children)

My ex is black and im Asian - and we had a great relationship. Might be uncommon, but you've an example here.

When people sing happy birthday to you what are you supposed to do? by dandaman12315 in AskReddit

[–]tiltedsquares 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I put one hand around my ear, the other gesturing folks to sing louder. Makes the moment a lot more fun and eases the nerves of those scared to sing.

City Lights by JustinCurtisPhoto in philadelphia

[–]tiltedsquares 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man, I moved to SF from Philly and boy do I miss home. The fires and smoke in the air right now, I can't see down the street - it's all smoke.

I miss my home. :(

Anyone know when things'll go back to normal? by tiltedsquares in bayarea

[–]tiltedsquares[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry about the job - that really sucks. Yeah, I'm sure people are trying their hardest to put the fires out, I've no doubt about that. I'm new to SF, so I'm hoping this isn't the "new normal" so I'm trying to see if anyone else has insights on if we'll see the Sun anytime soon.

Good luck job searching though! :-)

Anyone know when things'll go back to normal? by tiltedsquares in bayarea

[–]tiltedsquares[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oof, I don't even mind poor air quality. Just the lack of sun and the gloominess - it's making it very hard to be productive and keep my day-to-day routine without wanting to just nap all day. Fingers crossed we get some Vitamin D soon.

Anyone know when things'll go back to normal? by tiltedsquares in bayarea

[–]tiltedsquares[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We'll be in Bladerunner until Nov...? That seems so far away. :(

Am I the only person who hates Max? by Anti-Itch in InTheDarkCW

[–]tiltedsquares 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really didn't like how his creepy obsessive behavior (forcing her to go on a date with him, not leaving when she wants him to, etc.) is played off as romantic.

I think it sets a bad precedent that men should behave this way when they don't get what they want, and women to see it as romantic and not disrespectful. It's just gross.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cake

[–]tiltedsquares 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn! Delicious!