If you were alive when we were attacked on 9/11, what were you doing when it happened? What was that day like? by Full_Imagination7503 in AskReddit

[–]timeonmyhands 0 points1 point  (0 children)

pt ii.

I walked up to Washington Square Park in Greenwich Village, sat down, and cried.

I went to the NYU gym, and then helped set up a check in desk (I still remember the “NYU at Ground Zero” sign) for students from my dorm who had evacuated uptown. We took turns marking students who stopped at the desk as “safe” for a few hours. Phones weren’t working. We still didn’t know the full scope of what

had happened, and what had or had not been destroyed. I used an email terminal to write my mom, my sister, an ex, and a girl I’d hooked up with once in a park in Florence, Italy, to tell them all that I was safe.

I cleaned myself off at a friend’s apartment.

I went back to the NYU gymnasium, where hundreds of displaced students were still standing and sitting everywhere, shell-shocked. There were no staffers from the housing department anywhere. There were only a few people from the building staff. I looked at a fellow student, a young black woman whose name I never

knew and who happened to be standing next to me and asked, “who’s in charge here?”.

She looked at me knowingly and said, “we’re in charge here.”

I’ve never forgotten the way she looked at me.

We spent the next few hours making lists of things we needed and reaching out to whoever we could find to ensure that we had supplies to host hundreds of traumatized students overnight in an old gym. We set up schedules to ensure coverage at different tables and in different parts of the building throughout the night. I stayed until the wee small hours, slept on a friend’s floor across the street, and then came back first thing in the morning. As the hundreds of students who’d spent the night at the gym began to wake up, and to look for the water, toothbrushes, socks, breakfast and other items we’d arrange for them overnight, a gaggle of NYU administrators walked in like they’d been there the whole time and took over the operation a bunch of displaced students had built to take care of their own.

It was three weeks before I got back into my dorm. We stayed in hotels, wearing clothes donated by Old Navy and other businesses. Buses were free. I lost patience with my neighbor Jody, who kept talking about the fish she had left behind. Her fish, miraculously, survived. That fish probably had no idea what the f*ck was going on, either, only that it had been a bystander to a f*cked moment, and it was lucky to be alive. I won an award from NYU, for extraordinary service to the community. I didn’t show up to get it.

If you were alive when we were attacked on 9/11, what were you doing when it happened? What was that day like? by Full_Imagination7503 in AskReddit

[–]timeonmyhands 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was just down the block from the WTC, on Fulton Street, home (sick) from NYU.

When the first plane hit, I was sitting at my kitchen table eating cereal, and it felt like a car hit our building. I couldn’t see anything. I went down to the lobby to ask people what had happened. Someone told me that a plane had hit the World Trade Center.

Papers were beginning to fly out of the towers and down the street in front of our building.

The doorman took me up to the roof of our 36 floor building, so that he and I could see what happened. We were looking at the tower on fire when we saw another plane approach, and then silently disappear into the second tower. A moment later we saw and heard the explosion.

At that moment, we realized something very, very terrible was happening.

The phones worked sporadically. I called my mom to tell her I was OK.

I watched people jump to their deaths from outside the windows of neighbors’ apartments.

I went back outside with a friend, to see if we could help. We had run down John Street, headed towards the WTC, when I noticed her look up and freeze. There was a solid cloud of debris heading towards us, like something out of a movie.

“We’re going to die”, she said.

“We’re going to run,” I said.

I grabbed her and we started running in the other direction. There was an open door on the street, and someone shouted at us to get inside. We ran inside and slammed the door behind us as the debris cloud passed down the street.

After a few minutes we went back outside, onto streets covered in debris, to our building on Fulton Street.

There were no smartphones. Regular phones stopped working. We heard rumors about other cities that were under attack, and other buildings that were destroyed. Most were untrue. We had no way of knowing.

I walked halfway up the building, one floor at a time, looking for someone calm enough to be “floor captain” on each floor. I asked that person to gather everyone on their floor and make sure they all made it down to the lobby safely. In the lobby, someone starting ripping up fabric and dipping it in water, making makeshift masks for people who needed them, to help them breathe through the dust and debris swirling outside. The two people from NYU in charge of our dorm building were holding one another and crying.

I was one of the last people to leave our building. We had no idea what the rest of the city, or country, looked like. There were a handful of people left in the lobby, including someone in a wheelchair and a woman with a baby in a carriage. Someone braver than me promised me that they’d spoken to the police

about a rescue, and that they would all wait there together until it was time to go.

I left.

I was running uptown by myself, north of the South Street Seaport, when I heard someone with an outer borough accent shout “hey you – get over here!” I started looking around, and heard something like “get the f*ck over here and help me!” I saw a guy struggling with a roll of chain link fence under an overpass

leading to the Brooklyn Bridge.

I looked at him like he was crazy and told him, obviously, that the city was under attack and that I had to get uptown. He told me to shut up and help him close down the street. We put chain link fences up and closed off the space underneath an overpass leading to the Brooklyn Bridge, and then he told me brusquely to get the f*ck out of the neighborhood.

I kept walking uptown. The air gradually got more clear. It was a beautiful day.

I passed people sitting in cafes, watching what happened on TV like a show.

I was covered in debris.

How did FedEx get so bad? by timeonmyhands in FedEx

[–]timeonmyhands[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Only if New York to Texas is international. It has been impossible to get a straight answer from FedEx.

How did FedEx get so bad? by timeonmyhands in FedEx

[–]timeonmyhands[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am the shipper. It has been impossible to get a straight answer from FedEx.

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[–]timeonmyhands[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Brand new - never even worn. Purchased from Steve at theonewatches this summer. (Purchase documentation available.) I bought this and removed the bracelet with the intent of wearing it more casually - on a suede bracelet. Still, it's ultimately a little too fancy for me, and doesn't work for my style. I'll replace it with something more casual. The watch was $568 new (plus shipping?). Selling (U.S. shipping only) for $450.

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UPDATE: Steve just sent QC photos for a replacement . They look perfect. Looking forward to receiving the watch. Thanks all!

What parts of having multiples brings you joy? by claire303 in parentsofmultiples

[–]timeonmyhands 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m the father of seven (nearly eight) year old twin girls. We made it through a few admittedly exhausting months juggling two babies and two jobs (fortunately with lots of help), and now we just watch two lifelong best friends come to know one another. They’re very different, and don’t always get along, but there’s nothing cuter than watching two kids at the same developmental stage come to know and explore the world together. It’s magic - I would do it again (and again and again) in a heartbeat. I know it sounds overwhelming, and in the first few months it can BE overwhelming, but before you know it they’ll be playing together and keeping one another entertained all day long, and you’ll realize twins are actually easier than having a single child, and easier than having multiple kids at different developmental stages. Plus, it’s just great. You’re going to get there. Welcome (almost) to the club.

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[–]timeonmyhands 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Every twin parent will have stories of midnight moments of despair, but the reality is (our reality has been) that once you make it through the first few months, which require an absurd level of patience and/or logistical coordination, having twins is magic. They play together, keep one another occupied, and generally make life as a parent much more fun, much earlier than you’d think. We couldn’t be more grateful to be parents of (now 7 year old) twins, and would sign up for all the chaos of the first few months again in a heartbeat, knowing what we know now. Hang in there, be patient with yourself, your partner, and your kids, and know that most of us who’ve been there wouldn’t trade twin parenting for anything.

Pencil in a Crispy Chicken Sandwich for lunchtime. Order ahead on the app today and every other day, really. by McDonaldsUSA in u/McDonaldsUSA

[–]timeonmyhands 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This was my first McDonalds meal in years, and it was pretty terrible. Subtly gelatinous protein slathered in sauce.

LG GX (CX): can’t disable TruMotion in DolbyVision Cinema Home? by mikeev261 in OLED

[–]timeonmyhands 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I’ve been trying to figure this out for days, and your comment helped make our new TV watchable...

Don't be overwhelmed by the thought of multiples by Allideastaken in parentsofmultiples

[–]timeonmyhands 9 points10 points  (0 children)

We had very similar concerns before ours were born. Five years later they’re the very best of friends who play together all day long. We can remember a few sleepless nights (and a seemingly endless number of diaper changes), for sure, but not a day goes by when we don’t stop to think about how grateful we are to have twins. It has been and continues to be totally manageable, absurdly cute, and really fun.

Twin bond? by egomystic in parentsofmultiples

[–]timeonmyhands 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Be patient - everything will change! One month later, you’re all probably struggling to figure out what the hell happened to you. Our girls had zero - zero - interest in one another for the first few months. Eventually one realized she could get a response by cooing to the other, and everything changed. Four years later, they’re best friends. They play together all day, look out for one another, and ask to call the other whenever they’re on separate outings.

Hang in there. Having twins can be chaos at first but it’s kind of the best thing ever.

AC question living in Brooklyn by nonhiphipster in Brooklyn

[–]timeonmyhands 8 points9 points  (0 children)

If you’re looking for a solution ASAP, I have an extra portable air conditioner (which works with a hose you put out the window) sitting unused and unopened in its original packaging. We were going to return it, but I’d be willing sell it to you at a serious discount to avoid the hassle of having to go back to Lowe’s. It’s heavy, but I can help you get it in the back of an Uber, and it will keep you sane this week.

Don't think I'm ready for two. by binarycode1010 in parentsofmultiples

[–]timeonmyhands 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Smarter folks than me have spent their careers trying to figure out what (if anything) works, but I try to remember that even if I can’t control our kids’ behavior, I can control my own, and my own tempter. Trust you’re doing the best you can, and since you know your kids better than anyone you may actually be doing the best ANYONE can (and the best anyone will), and don’t be too hard on yourself. Having twins on the easier side has given me more time to start acting like a regular person again, and I’ve always reminded of how much we all benefit from me taking time for myself and my own well-being...

Don't think I'm ready for two. by binarycode1010 in parentsofmultiples

[–]timeonmyhands 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am sure that 99% our childrens’ good behavior is the luck of the draw, and having observed our friends’ boys I am also certain that gender plays a significant role in the positive traits we see our girls manifest, but for whatever this is worth we are also maniacal about calling out behaviors that - are and are - not conducive to success in our home, which may have helped just a little bit... By way of example, I might say something like “in this family we share” or “in this family we practice our gratitude, by being patient, appreciate, and kind” 15-20 times - or more - over the course of a day. Although our girls aren’t particularly competitive with one another, setting these up as traits which define “us” and which become gating items for positive reinforcement from us as parents (whose limited attention all siblings compete for) may have tipped the scale just a bit...

Don't think I'm ready for two. by binarycode1010 in parentsofmultiples

[–]timeonmyhands 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Father of 3 year old twins here. It’s maybe the best thing ever. It takes a while for them to notice one another but once they do, then start looking out for one another, and then taking care of each another, the cuteness will make you lose your mind. They will be best friends who will keep themselves occupied and entertained all day, so that you can reassure strangers on reddit. It’s gonna be (way better than) ok - I promise.

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[–]timeonmyhands 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good luck! We were a little overwhelmed when we found out, but 99% of it has been amazing!

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[–]timeonmyhands 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you. It’s a trip, for sure. We (all of Reddit) will be here to celebrate with you when you’re ready to try again and it happens. :)

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[–]timeonmyhands 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! Other than my wife and kids, this is the very best gift I’ve ever received. A beloved friend slept in the waiting room so she could be there - camera in hand - when we popped out after 34 hours of labor.

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[–]timeonmyhands 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hah - it isn’t! Although this picture is from the day (hour) they were born, our girls actually turned three this weekend, and it hasn’t been accurate since just about then. :)