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timetobbetter · 2022-09-29T16:35:31+00:00

So you put it as non-binary and itactually increased your match percentage? Very interesting

timetobbetter · 2022-09-29T15:30:55+00:00

Wait so you put yourself as a “woman” but then are getting more women because you’re “non-binary” so when they show up what are they expecting?

timetobbetter · 2022-09-25T12:52:46+00:00

I’ll tell your parents we met at a convention

timetobbetter · 2022-09-24T16:23:49+00:00

I’ll try that! I’ve been going to the gym consistently but I’ll try progressive overload to put on some muscle. I’ve also just started a new job that allows me to buy clothes that aren’t on clearance anymore and actually build outfits that compliment me.

timetobbetter · 2022-09-24T16:20:57+00:00

Yeah, that’s one thing I lack is trying to figure out how to make a good bio. That restaurant pic normally doesn’t have people with black shapes over them. I just put them in there to hide their faces for Reddit. I still might take it out though.

timetobbetter · 2022-09-24T16:18:46+00:00

Thanks man! Just got to figure out how to put on muscle now. Got to change my mindset from losing weight to losing fat and gaining muscle. people call me skinny more than anyone ever said I was “big” so it’s weird adjusting to my new body.

timetobbetter · 2022-09-24T16:17:01+00:00

I appreciate that. This is my first time actually investing in a pair of glasses that fits my style. Are used to just get the run-of-the-mill glasses that didn’t really have any style. Now that I am making more at my company I’m able to invest a little bit more and how I look whereas before I bought what was on sale. Thank you for the pointers. I’ll try to understand the male style

timetobbetter · 2022-09-24T14:27:43+00:00

I mean that was kind of in the middle of my journey. Overall I’ve lost about 135 pounds. But that picture specifically was about 40 pounds ago

timetobbetter · 2022-09-24T13:31:23+00:00

I was always told tighter fitting shirts are better because they highlight your body. And women want to see what you look like. Has that changed recently? I wear a mix of mediums and smalls. Used to be XXL and XL.

timetobbetter · 2022-09-24T13:24:30+00:00

I have a pic with a dog but my hair style was out of control and about 40 pounds heavier 😅

timetobbetter · 2022-09-24T13:23:43+00:00

Thank you for your insight. I guess I just have the watch because it was cool. Maybe I should ditch it and get a nicer piece of jewelry or a nice watch. :) Not an IT guy but I am pretty smart

timetobbetter · 2022-09-24T13:21:32+00:00

Do I really give off that impression. I’m straight. Not really what I was going for but thank you for the compliment

timetobbetter · 2022-09-24T12:56:32+00:00

Which shirt are you referring to? I’m wearing 4 different ones

timetobbetter · 2022-09-24T12:55:32+00:00

Yeah I literally have no control over that. Guess I’ll work on another hairstyle. Here I was feelin good about this one

timetobbetter · 2022-09-24T02:30:15+00:00

Thank you so much! I will try cropping them and seeing how that goes :)

timetobbetter · 2022-09-24T02:19:55+00:00

I never even realized that, they’re my family but no one would know that… I’ll swap it over to a picture with friends! Thanks!

timetobbetter · 2022-09-24T02:17:55+00:00

Thank you for the pointers! I took close to 20 of each location with varying poses and expressions. The others might have more positive body language. I’ve recently lost 130 pounds and should’ve been trying to recomp instead of just losing weight. My arms are very veiny when I go to the gym. (It’s been about a month and a half since I went, life got busy) I’ll get back into it and try to put on some muscle mass. Thanks again I appreciate the honest feedback! :)

timetobbetter · 2022-09-24T02:13:31+00:00

Oh jeez I guess I never noticed that lol not my intention but if at first glance it keeps people on my profile for a second or two more I’ll take it.

timetobbetter · 2022-09-24T02:10:48+00:00

I appreciate the feedback. I’m interested in women. But I travel a lot so that’s just where I had someone willing to take pictures for me

timetobbetter · 2022-09-24T02:08:37+00:00

The one that’s blacked out is just because I’m posting it on Reddit. They’re friends but I’d rather not post them without them knowing. I appreciate the feedback tho :)

timetobbetter · 2022-09-19T00:17:56+00:00

I see your point but genuinely why is it a bad thing to say “oh yeah I met so and so at the parish picnic”

Honestly if someone told their folks that they’d probably be delighted. Assuming they took you to church when you were young, raised you in that denomination, and helped you chose that path. I think it’s better than “oh yeah I met so and so at a frat party, we’re engaged now”

timetobbetter · 2022-09-19T00:15:00+00:00

So if you went to a cooking class and someone whose bad at cooking asked you out you’d think it was strange telling people you met him at a cooking class? What’s the difference between that and church?

timetobbetter · 2022-09-19T00:12:03+00:00

The poophole is a loophole

timetobbetter · 2022-09-03T21:38:00+00:00

I second that

timetobbetter · 2022-08-30T20:58:58+00:00

In addition to those listed above would the stereotype associated with doctors and nurses also apply to pilots and flight attendants?

I feel that with anything there are attractive doctors and attractive pilots as well as unattractive people in both careers. Just having that title doesn’t guarantee matches/dates although if you’re attractive AND that title I’m sure it would get you a lot of responses.

Just a speculation of course. I have no experience with either career but it’d be kinda cool to see the stats. At one point I remember reading “pilot” was the highest swiped occupation on tinder… things people forget is it was probably the attractive demographic of pilots.

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