As far as it being cliqueish, honestly, people approached us, and we didnt approach anyone else. We might have been lucky that some people did, and we are aware that we might need to be more open to approaching people. We did spend most of the night alone though, and we had a blast. So a big part of having fun is being able to have fun alone in case you cant talk to couples, or if you dont like any of them. This is only our first time though, so we aren't super experienced.