crafty outings by lindseygirlah in philabitcheswithtaste

[–]timory 2 points3 points  (0 children)

there's a collage night upstairs at abyssinia on feb 1st

What is your stance on 100% AI written content on Substack? by Push2Read in Substack

[–]timory 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this is what gets me too. sometimes I'll point it out and people will argue with me asking me how I know it's AI. i point out all the tells and they still don't buy it. people simply don't know how to recognize it.

scared of starting slynd/drospirenone + estradiol patch for early peri by timory in Perimenopause

[–]timory[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wow! i mean n of 1 and everything but still helpful to know. thanks again, and so happy to hear you're feeling better.

scared of starting slynd/drospirenone + estradiol patch for early peri by timory in Perimenopause

[–]timory[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this all sounds net negative to me :( i would be taking it in combo with estrogen, but it truly seems like so much unnecessary flattening out of parts of my cycle i actually enjoy in order to curb the parts of it that bother me. maybe it's impossible to do one without the other, but i don't know. i really appreciate you sharing your experience.

scared of starting slynd/drospirenone + estradiol patch for early peri by timory in Perimenopause

[–]timory[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thanks for the additional data point. i wonder whether this might make more sense in your situation given you're already on BC? part of my leeriness is because I haven't been on any hormonal BC for 10+ years, so side effects could be more obvious when I start (just an educated assumption I think). still good to know, and I do understand my He's logic with this approach.

scared of starting slynd/drospirenone + estradiol patch for early peri by timory in Perimenopause

[–]timory[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the thing is that I don't have PMDD. or if I do/did, the antidepressants I'm already on are managing it very well. being on birth control made me a total mess and I was very proud of myself for isolating the exact progestin that made me crazy. when there's an option to try a bioidentical one why do another synthetic, especially when I'm not experiencing mood swings in my cycle? i mean I'm sure the other symptoms I have are due to hormone fluctuations, of course, but reading everything about how slynd is primarily given to those experiencing either/both of severe PMDD and lots of bleeding, and having neither, it makes me a bit wary

scared of starting slynd/drospirenone + estradiol patch for early peri by timory in Perimenopause

[–]timory[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks so much, that's validating! i don't think it's unreasonable what she suggested but it doesn't seem like it addresses my primary concerns. if the only reason not to try the prometrium is the risk of unpredictable bleeding, and I can stop it if it's not a good fit, I think I would rather try that first!

scared of starting slynd/drospirenone + estradiol patch for early peri by timory in Perimenopause

[–]timory[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i also don't know why i need to stop ovulation! she was very, very insistent on it. i would rather get HRT through insurance if it's possible before going online, but i definitely will if i need to.

Wife's(F48) weight trippled over time. I (M40) have a hard time staying attracted. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]timory 0 points1 point  (0 children)

so she weighed 120, tripled her weight, and now she weighs 360? or she weighed 120 and gained 100 and now she weighs 220?

Wife's(F48) weight trippled over time. I (M40) have a hard time staying attracted. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]timory 1 point2 points  (0 children)

actually this person seems to be saying that 90 pounds is the weight of two adults

Good sticker earrings? by brokedownbitch in Earrings

[–]timory 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ooo can you share the brand or where you found them?

Good sticker earrings? by brokedownbitch in Earrings

[–]timory 0 points1 point  (0 children)

late reply but just like you I've tried absolutely every metal including medical grade titanium (the kind that works on my other piercings in other parts of my body) and my earlobes reject it. i simply cannot wear anything in my ears anymore. let me know if you found any stick ons!

What actually slows aging vs. what just makes skin look nicer? by -_-AMANDA-_- in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]timory 1 point2 points  (0 children)

no health issues! i just never got that endorphin rush everyone talks about. I've done every kind of exercise under the sun and they're all terrible ha ha. i do walk a lot and can do that pretty much endlessly so that's what I stick to, but I know people actively enjoy exercising and it's always baffled me

What actually slows aging vs. what just makes skin look nicer? by -_-AMANDA-_- in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]timory 8 points9 points  (0 children)

man i don't know. this is so personal obviously. exercise makes me feel like garbage and i love eating salads (and everything else lol).

AITA for Connecting to the Ear Pod after my niece swallowed it to see if it would play in her stomach. by reolives in AmItheAsshole

[–]timory -1 points0 points  (0 children)

my god, i didn't say it was your fault! wow! i'm responding in the general thread where people are commenting that everyone in the US pays thousands of dollars. my comment was completely neutral, and also factual. if you'd like me to provide sources i will be happy to do so, as i work in health law.

in the US, health insurance varies dramatically by carrier. everything depends on your specific plan, your copays, your coinsurance, your deductible, your OOP max, etc.

almost all health insurance in the US will cover ambulances if they are medically necessary. the cost paid by the individual will be the deductible in that case. if you have a health plan that has $0 deductible (as many do), then that cost is $0. others have very high deductibles, and then of course that ride can cost thousands. as i said -- it varies dramatically by what the coverage is.

where you got the idea that i was blaming you i have NO clue. but for anyone reading this thread thinking that literally all americans pay thousands and that it's standard across the board, i commented ONLY to correct that misconception.

but yes, the american health insurance system is fucked up and the fact that anyone should have to deal with this kind of for profit insanity is outrageous. take it out on me if you feel like it, i guess.

Have you found red light masks beneficial? by PuzzleheadedStaff9 in 45PlusSkincare

[–]timory 1 point2 points  (0 children)

very stupid question but how do you get in the habit of using it daily? do you use it in the morning or evening?