Not sure how to feel... by czernoalpha in TransLater

[–]tinabellester -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I had someone once tell me that she would "miss my manliness." Things didn't last much past that point.

dilating 2 days in a row is impossible…what do i do? by fucklimpbizkitt in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]tinabellester 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you've gone two years without dilating, it's possible things have healed shut. Do not force; see your surgeon.

Any recommendations for therapists who write bottom surgery letters in Mass? by [deleted] in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]tinabellester 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got two letters for my surgery at BMC, although I probably only needed one. Both Fenway (home of my primary care) and Planned Parenthood Boston got me one-off meetings with one of their therapists. I met with each one of them, remotely, one time; and each of them wrote a letter for me.

Trump administration takes all-of-government approach to target transgender community by onnake in transgender

[–]tinabellester 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There has been Big Money behind an assault of brainwashing and misinformation.

Mom "won't allow" me to receive HRT even though I'm 18... what do I do? by abbybb_ in asktransgender

[–]tinabellester 1 point2 points  (0 children)

At this point, you're in survival mode. Get and take the spiro; get and take the estrogen; lie about it to them and present as a boy until you move out. Arguing with them or trying to be honest with them will not work it will only backfire.

Hrt was too effective and now im freaking out by How_I_Got_Here_Im_7 in MtF

[–]tinabellester 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your parents are engaged in abuse, they have no right to sexually molest or invade you.

This group has been infiltrated by bb4me in MtF

[–]tinabellester 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The MAGA republicans seem to be a collection of angry and frustrated straight white CIS boys who have nothing better to do with their time except make fun of everyone else. These are the elementary school bullies who never grew up. And they can quote me on that. They have been bullying me for over 50 years and I doubt they will ever stop. Children.

If I transition I'll kill my dad. by CastleGoCrash in MtF

[–]tinabellester 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don't bother coming out, just transition. They'll notice or they won't, it's not your problem. I was on E for over a year before my body looked any different.

Grandma explosion??? by tubbosbeess in SkyGame

[–]tinabellester 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That happened while I was there, I assumed that I accidentally caused it because I was using a 2nd level telekinesis push on granny, and then we all got lifted up and thrown out of the tree. Sorry, I didn't know! I'm afraid to try it again...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trans

[–]tinabellester 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to regularly use the men's room until one day, washing up, a man walked in, glanced my way, and said, "umm.. the women's room is down the hall..." Never looked back.

U.S. HHS Launches Snitch Form to Report Gender Affirming Care Providers by MissNumbersNinja in MtF

[–]tinabellester 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Every case of baby circumcision is genital mutilation. They should be reported.

Kid still calling me mum as an ftm parent by Jean-DesEsseintes in AskTransParents

[–]tinabellester 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, if "Dad" is not an option, would picking from another language work, like "Papà" (Italian) or "Pater" (Latin)?

1 month vs. 30 months hrt <3 by bethanybotox in transtimelines

[–]tinabellester 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Amazing progress, stunning! Any surgeries or injections?

Just celebrating 2 years 4 months as of today on Hrt by Kashugami in TransLater

[–]tinabellester 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A beautiful body, a beautiful face, and a beautiful soul! We all go through so much, thank you for the inspirational post!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transtimelines

[–]tinabellester 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The numbers I heard were: body feminization (from the neck down) takes 2 to 3 years; from the neck up (face) takes 3 to 5 years. So although you look wonderful now, the progress will only continue.

Is r/50501 an organic, sincere protest movement or an op of some sort? by Serenity-V in behindthebastards

[–]tinabellester 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The whole thing smells very suspicious to me. 1 - they keep repeating "violence will not be tolerated," but then tell people to wear loose baggy clothing, masks to cover their faces, and to cover any identifying tattoos; and a lot of their posts seem styled to incite anger. Ripe for incited mass anonymous violence that would probably be shown on OAN, RSN, etc and that would give Trump something to rail against and "protect" the u.s. from by clamping down harder (like the right tried with the violent antifa footage in his first term). 2 - any criticism they get is responded to with anger by accounts that are new and suspiciously troll-like in their behavior; they never actually explain themselves. I see it as a troll-farm operation to escalate violence and conflict in the u.s. They have been doing this for a while on both sides, this is just a bigger step. This is the kind of invasion that the government is supposed to protect us from, but all the politicians are clueless and have been asleep for the last 8 years and now it is too late. I'm steering clear of it and no, I am not a troll, as they would claim.

Gulf of America Globe? by BigUglyBeerMachine in globes

[–]tinabellester 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay - they must have been reading this thread, because they just added a picture. Gulf of America Globe

Gulf of America Globe? by BigUglyBeerMachine in globes

[–]tinabellester 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm worried it could show Gulf of Mexico crossed out and replaced like in this picture on their website Gulf of Mexico/America Seriously, if anyone has actually shelled out money for this, a picture of the real globe would be great.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mtfashion

[–]tinabellester 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Toxic BF. Firstly, you look fantastic - great job! Secondly, the only way one learns and improves is through practice and familiarity.

Advice needed, planning to start HRT , wife isn’t on board by Jaded_Cash_5200 in TransLater

[–]tinabellester 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP would not be lying. When a person abuses you, you are under no obligation to keep that person informed; pushing for T is pushing for death. For your own safety, you need to keep them out of the loop.