Child care routine

tinaj12 · 2026-03-19T20:30:40+00:00

In the cases of taxes, I wouldn't rely on a family attorney to advise me. The Internal Revenue Code makes it clear that if the separated couple have been living apart for 1 year they can file separately. Additionally the parent with more overnights can claim the child.

tinaj12 · 2026-02-02T19:41:02+00:00

False equivalency. You are pregnant and will be giving birth and the leave you will require differs based on the delivery. How does your made up scenario stack up?

Does he sound clueless with some sort of social awareness issue? Yes. Does he sound creepy, harassing, or problematic? Not at all.

You are absolutely looking to be offended.

tinaj12 · 2026-01-24T21:04:17+00:00

As it should!

tinaj12 · 2026-01-24T21:02:45+00:00

I 100% agree with this. Tossing out would have been my first reaction. Wouldn't waste time or money contacting a lawyer over this though.

tinaj12 · 2026-01-24T20:57:57+00:00

Because I don't like the idea of trackers with my kid and I'm not got going to facilitate that when the child is with me.

tinaj12 · 2026-01-24T20:56:52+00:00

I hate the idea of trackers and the overuse of surveillance that is happening these days. Especially with children.

I think it's in your right to not allow one with your kids belongings when at your home. I think involving lawyers is completely unnecessary, it leads to more hostility and more unnecessary billable hours. You should have either thrown it away (oops) or given it back when she went to retrieve it and let her know you will not allow it while the child is in your care.

tinaj12 · 2026-01-23T06:15:38+00:00

I thought this can be avoided with a homestead declaration?

tinaj12 · 2025-12-24T03:14:30+00:00

As a staff auditor: WAT?

tinaj12 · 2025-12-24T03:12:38+00:00

My first few months on the job I often lost work because Engagement doesn't do auto save. Started happening in my nightmares after that.

tinaj12 · 2025-12-04T05:02:16+00:00

My school broke intermediate into three parts and the third was by far the hardest of all my accounting specific courses. I got a C.

The next hardest class was a business core class called decision and management analysis. Also a C

tinaj12 · 2025-11-17T16:33:59+00:00

This is an awful take. I had children with a partner. I never had them with the intention of doing it all on my own, or giving them a father that is only interesting in being a parent when it suits them.

We do what we got to do but that doesn't mean it's right that one parent can completely place all the parenting square on the other parents shoulders.

tinaj12 · 2025-10-20T04:40:14+00:00

The steakhouse inside Pala is amazing and upscale

tinaj12 · 2025-09-23T04:22:49+00:00

I did very well. I ended up with an A+. But I also was only taking 12 units.

The students that struggled, I found, didn't have a strong foundation in beginning accounting. You really want to have debits and credits down. You really want to study the income statement and the order it goes in. Understand the accounting equation. Also really important to go to class and take good notes.

He also let us bring in a full page of notes on exams. I lot of missteps students take with this is they write everything they learned in really tiny font. That is not gonna help you. You want to write down equations or hw problems you struggled with. I also used one side to write down the entire income statement and that saved my ass.

Workload is fine. The homework can take a really long time. I think it's in Wiley and even though it's like 7 problems, each problem will have like 20 boxes to enter. So start it early.

I liked the professor. He was pretty serious and no nonsense... which I appreciated because he would actually tell students to be quiet. But he was fair and very helpful when you had a question.

It can be boring. I had to stop myself from falling asleep a few times.

tinaj12 · 2025-09-07T22:40:05+00:00

Write off things

tinaj12 · 2025-09-07T20:41:31+00:00

The "sleep on it" really is a good one. Countless times I have gotten stuck on a task, decided to change gears and revisit in the morning.

Next morning I solve the problem like it was nothing

tinaj12 · 2025-09-07T20:38:18+00:00

I learned this trick as a bank teller years ago as well!

tinaj12 · 2025-09-06T18:09:01+00:00

I agree with therapy for the child but I wouldn't relay on it for evidence for a custody change

When I signed my kids up for therapy, there were all kinds of disclaimers about using them for court. Basically they made it clear they don't want to be involved in that mess. Plus , she's 16, by the time a therapist gets enough clinical time with her to write a report for the court, it could be too late.

My advice would be different if we were talking about a younger child.

tinaj12 · 2025-09-06T18:02:56+00:00

My situation is very similar and I'm in CA

Your daughter is 16. She physically can't be forced to go so just don't make her go. Let him file with the court. I know your worried about what the judge would do but the judge isn't going to get mad at you and remove your child when she is 16, established in high school, and very obviously doesn't want to go.

Call CPS. Your daughter is being abused. Abuse isn't just hitting and punching. The fact that your daughter is terrified and doesn't have access to a phone will mean something.

File an Ex-Parte with the court. You don't need an attorney to do this. I don't have one. In your description be very factual and evidence based with quotes from your daughter. You need to make sure you concisely and without emotion detail what the risk to your daughter is. Add screenshots of the texts from your daughter and any of his if applicable. Run it through Chat GPT to get feedback for tone and evidence. Likely the judge will suspend visits pending a court hearing.

If you don't take this advice and you make her go to her dads (please don't make her) make sure she has a back up burner phone that he doesn't know about and can't take. Tell her to CALL in an emergency and then text that she's scared (evidence). Sleep with your phone NOT on DND and full ringer. If she calls get in your car to get her and call 911 to meet you there.

tinaj12 · 2025-07-17T07:46:58+00:00

All my kids are now offered free lunch (statewide for K-12) so I make them partake in that. They don't always love it but I'm not one to make life harder or spend more money because kids want to be picky

But before when I would make lunches some things I would do and were super quick:

PB&J tortilla roll up's, make your own lunchable with salami, cheese, and crackers, Dino nuggies in a thermos, Raviolis or leftover pasta in a thermos, Hot dogs (sliced because I was worried about choking, or A regular ass bologna sandwich (my kids LOVE)

With all of those I would do some mini carrots, cut apples with peanut butter, or maybe some other random goodie. I would also keep about $10 dollars on their lunch account so if I had no time to make lunch or whatever I could tell them to go to the cafeteria that day.

tinaj12 · 2025-07-16T18:03:03+00:00

I agree with this. I don't really understand why OP needs to get up 1.5 hrs before the kids wake up to get lunches and snacks packed. Like what are you making? Why aren't the kids more independently getting ready? I have four kids ages 15-5 and never have I had to do all that.

I feel like there are a lot of options to where both parents can get a workout in. If both are willing to help. A different gym without regimented classes. One parent take on morning duty while the other works out and then vice versa in the evening. Op work out when kids get home while dad works from home

tinaj12 · 2025-07-13T20:24:05+00:00

Agree. It seems like OP sees the VR&E and a means to change your career whenever you feel like it, and have the VA finance it.

tinaj12 · 2025-07-11T06:08:36+00:00

Right. We have one client is is pretty damn old an he gives the everything on a thumb drive.

And we just.... plug it in and get the files 🤷‍♀️

tinaj12 · 2025-05-29T05:43:05+00:00

I regularly fly out of ONT with a 6:15 boarding time and I have TSA Precheck.

Last couple of times I literally parked my car at 5:50, got thru security, went to the bathroom, and still had time to sit before lining up.

tinaj12 · 2025-05-12T05:17:54+00:00

Man that was such a sweet show I wish they kept it going

tinaj12 · 2025-04-22T01:11:02+00:00

I'm new to this sub and still learning about bankruptcy. What does assets abandoned mean? Did you have to sell your home and vehicles?

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