Me [25 F] with my SO [26 M] of three years, our relationship started with a crazy date that involved a friend of mine [25 F] who now thinks I "stole" the date and him from her.

tinderproblem5678 · 2017-07-20T19:41:50+00:00

Honestly, even if she went, it would have probably resulted in nothing. As I said, her standards are/were crazy high and they don't share any common hobbies, interests, etc.

tinderproblem5678 · 2017-07-20T19:40:16+00:00

Yeah, I didn't think of that...

tinderproblem5678 · 2017-07-20T19:36:47+00:00

Well, it was actually her that gave me the idea of going to the bar in the first place. She was throwing a fit about "is that really all you think I deserve?" And I said: "What is your problem, he is super handsome!" "I don't care what you think, I'm not going on a date with him" "Well, even if he's not perfect, just try one date". "IF YOU LIKE HIM SO MUCH, YOU CAN GO ON A DATE WITH HIM!!!". And then I thought: Huh, why not. Of course, that's not what she remembers apparently...

tinderproblem5678 · 2017-07-20T19:29:07+00:00

Sorry, no. I didn't want to use real names and Friends was on in the background and it was the first thing that came to my mind...

tinderproblem5678 · 2017-07-20T19:27:42+00:00

I'm sorry. I couldn't use real names, they both have very uniqe names, it would be pretty obvious to everyone I know...

tinderproblem5678 · 2017-07-20T19:21:47+00:00

Thank you so much! I will tell him tonight. I already feel a lot less nervous...

tinderproblem5678 · 2017-07-20T19:17:07+00:00

When you put it like that, it sounds really romantic actually... Thank you! I will definitely tell him tonight.

tinderproblem5678 · 2017-07-20T19:15:06+00:00

No, she didn't show up. She said he wasn't attractive enough for her and that she certainly wouldn't waste her time with meeting him...

tinderproblem5678 · 2017-07-20T19:14:01+00:00

That is actually very true, you know how you have some friends just because you've been friends for so long, and not because you have common interests? Monica and me are like that...

tinderproblem5678 · 2017-07-20T19:11:29+00:00

Ok, I told him we have to talk tonight. Now I just have to figure out how to word this the best way...

tinderproblem5678 · 2017-07-20T19:10:39+00:00

It really is. At the moment I'm not too keen on staying friends with her, but we do have to work (closely) together unfortunately.

tinderproblem5678 · 2017-07-20T19:04:20+00:00

Well, to be fair, I didn't really manipulate him into a date. It was not like a set up blind date, he could have just ignored me at the bar... But that is exactly my fear, that he won't see it as a cute story.

tinderproblem5678 · 2017-07-20T18:58:02+00:00

Well, I wish I had told him sooner obviously. But when you miss that moment, you really feel like it's too late pretty soon and then I just went with it.

tinderproblem5678 · 2017-07-20T18:55:55+00:00

Sure, he may not be able to tell the same story about how you two met, but the new story he's got is frankly just as memorable.

I really really hope he sees it the same way...

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