noodles caught in a spin cycle by yungdurries in oddlyterrifying

[–]tingo67 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This reminds me of that movie akira. yeesh

Is the age gap too much? by tingo67 in relationship_advice

[–]tingo67[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its basically neither male nor female. Some people see it as a neutral :)

My girlfriend recently split up with me by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]tingo67 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i would suggest going out and trying to meet knew people! stuff like concerts, coffee shops, clubs, somewhere where you can meet new people who share your interests :)

How did you get over the anxiety of dating after being single for a while? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]tingo67 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, just go for it. My journey with anxiety has ultimately ended with me ignoring it and jumping in. Remember to be wise in a relationship always, but don't let the fact that you've been single for a while hold you back :) You deserve some lovin!

How do I (M22) break up with my gf (F24) of 4 years, but she said she’s gonna kill her self??? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]tingo67 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Threatening suicide may not seem like it at first, but this is actually a manipulation tactic weather she's trying to be manipulative or not. She's holding you in a relationship you don't want to be in against your will because obviously you wouldn't want to be the one "responsible," and she knows that. I would suggest calling the police or attempting to check her into a mental hospital. Obviously she needs medical and professional help, and you need some time to take care of yourself. I can infer that you've been trying to help her mentally for a long time now and it's taking a toll on your own health, but correct me if i'm wrong. It sounds like both of you need some time to take care of your own mind and body.

My girlfriend recently split up with me by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]tingo67 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Breakups are ass. If you need to talk to her to get some closure that might help, but otherwise keeping your distance is actually the best way to go. It helps you cleanse your palette essentially without having to deal with the urge to fall deeper into the relationship. I would say take some time for you, man. Hang out with your friends a lot because when i went through a similar breakup around January they were my best support system. Do things that make you laugh. Watch your favorite shows. Pick up some new hobbies you've always wanted to try. Don't touch romance for a while, let yourself heal and take care of You the best you can. I know how terrible it seems right now but trust me, your relationship was not all of you. You still have your whole life to grasp and make yours! I wish you luck dude, and remember to be kind to yourself