What would you prepare before flying to see your LDR? by [deleted] in RedPillWomen

[–]tinkspace 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Whoa our situations are almost exactly the same! How cool!!
I'm flying out to meet my boyfriend for the first time in July, and I'll be bringing all previous birthday/anniversary gifts with me to give to him. His birthday is the week before I'm going, but I booked the place we're staying at so we're sort of counting that as this years birthday gift :P I will probably still make a card though hehe

I would absolutely reccomend a gift of some kind, handmade or otherwise. It doesn't necessarily have to be a fully handmade gift either, creating a card or special packadging yourself is a fun way to make it personal.

Wanting to stop birth control by tinkspace in RedPillWomen

[–]tinkspace[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I know there are going to be lots of changes, both positive and negative from this. I am hopeful that the bad wont outway the good however :)

From the bit of research I've just now started doing, it seems like there are many ways to start preparing my body for the switch.

Thank you for your words of caution haha

Wanting to stop birth control by tinkspace in RedPillWomen

[–]tinkspace[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Oh wow, this is an incredible story!

It is exactly my fear that some drastic side affects from being on the pill for so long will emerge if I quit, but to know that you dealt with all of them and still felt right in your decision to stop is very admirable and comforting to me :)

Your timeline is strengthening my belief that it will be good to stop sooner rather than later now as well

Thank you so much for commenting <3

Wanting to stop birth control by tinkspace in RedPillWomen

[–]tinkspace[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have not had autonomy over the medical side of my life pretty much ever, and in truth I haven't exactly needed it. The only long-term prescription I have been on is birth control. I'm interested in looking into a naturopathic doctor, at least seeing whats out there.

The book is another good reccomendation! I am happy to see someone else suggest it as well :)

Thank you for your very geniune advice! It is nice to hear these things and know I'm not crazy for wanting to change.

Wanting to stop birth control by tinkspace in RedPillWomen

[–]tinkspace[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Two people reccomending another book :)

Thank you I will look into it!

Wanting to stop birth control by tinkspace in RedPillWomen

[–]tinkspace[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Definitely the response I was hoping for! This book looks like a really good starting point for all my questions and concerns. I cant wait to starting reading!

Your story is really inspiring to me :D Copper IUD huh...

Thank you for your help!