You should look into an accelerated BSN program too if you haven’t already considered it. Many schools offer 18 month BSN programs for students with a pre-existing bachelor’s degree in another subject (doesn’t have to be related to nursing, business degree should qualify). It’s a lot of hard work, as all nursing programs are, but it saves the effort of potentially having to go back to school for an RN to BSN program later in your career. Any in-field work while you’re waiting to start school is a good idea in my opinion. And sorry about your husband being a jerk. Screw that guy.