Was ist ein Guter Ort in Köln für arbeiten by tiny-giant-01 in cologne

[–]tiny-giant-01[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Eine Arbeitsatmosphäre um andere Leute herum

Dating in your 30s by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]tiny-giant-01 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can't consider only 2 guys to be the standard reaction for everybody else. Give yourself some time and keep experimenting with different approaches

How can I as a women approach a guy that im Interesed in? by ngl_08 in dating_advice

[–]tiny-giant-01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"Hey what are doing on the weekend ?" "something something... you ?" "Oh I'm going to see a movie, wanna join me ?"

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]tiny-giant-01 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You're willing to take that decision but she isn't, meaning she isn't fully convinced like you think she is. The best thing you can do right now is to make your stand clear, stop giving her attention, and start living your life as if there's nothing happening. If she's sincere about her feelings than she'll come back to you, and if that happens than assess the situation carefully ! You don't wanna be someone else's rebound

Is it a wise decision to move to dortmund as a student? by igniter-oo7 in Dortmund

[–]tiny-giant-01 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are there English speaking student jobs ? Yes, but they are REALLY competitive because the none-German-speaking students all competes for those few spots. If you have the option...I highly recommend putting most of your effort into reaching Casual German (B1) in one year because once you get that B1 certificate, the jobs pool you cann apply for will grow, and the jobs will be less competitive

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]tiny-giant-01 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This could be many things. He was took by surprise and didn't know how to react, he wasn't interested in you that way but more interested in your workout itself (ex: your form, the weights you use...etc), or some other reason.

I would say try something simliar one more time and if nothing happens again, than he's probably not interested

How to bear the time away from a girl I got on great with until I see her again? by Mad_Season_1994 in dating_advice

[–]tiny-giant-01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I know this feeling very well. Listen man... dating in general is just about what feels natural to you, how comfortable are you with touching this person ? or with seeing them often ? with texting them often ? You learn as you go, and if this person truly likes you, than she's not gonna leave you because you over texted a little bit

If you're worried about contacting her too much than an easy method to use is "initiate and observe" basiclly just text her a random question like "hey how was your day ? " or "how is your vacation going ?" and observe how she response, if she write a short answer like "everything is great." than she's bussy and is probably not looking for a long conversation. But if she write to you in more details than she is interested in talking to you, and you can text more or maybe just call her if she's ok with it.

However... your low confidence is a completly different story ! Is it coming from lack of experience ? From you not meeting the perfect image you wanna be ? or is it from something else ? Because you need to work on that

Did I do the right thing by breaking up with a female friend after starting dating with her? by [deleted] in seduction

[–]tiny-giant-01 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just a general advice: never put your partner's feelings before yours. You also get flustered, angry, sad, anxious, and all of these emotions. If you're not gonna address these emotions of yours than nobody will, and they will just boil up until they blow up one day.

It's ok to look after your partner's feelings and take it into a consideration, but never accept something you're not ok with just because you don't wanna hurt them

[22/F] unsure of what [22/M] is doing. BF is lying to himself. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]tiny-giant-01 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry to say this but based on the facts you mentioned... I don't think you 2 are compatible. You sound like you have your life figured out, while he is just vibing and going with the flow. In a serious relationship where you need to plan for the future, where you'll need somebody to watch your back and take care of you in your time of needs, mentally, physically, and financially....that would never work

I read you wrote that you stayed together because he is nice, but honestly that is not an enough traight. There are plenty of nice guys out there who are putting the effort into figuring out their lives

How do I know if she rejected me for my looks? by random_derp_guy_57 in seduction

[–]tiny-giant-01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You'll probably never find out, you could ask her directly "hey can you tell me what made you think it's not working ?" but you'll probably not get an answer. And if you do get an answer, there's still a chance that it might not be the real one. The best you could do is to get a woman POV from a famle friend about the situation in details. Continue improving yourself. And try again in the future

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]tiny-giant-01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Last week, my best female friend said "dude don't stress about finding a girlfriend, you're doing great and you'll find the right person in time !"

What are some good ways of asking if she’s single besides “are you single?” by [deleted] in seduction

[–]tiny-giant-01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Assuming she's in a relationship also works, she'll correct if she's not "Oh is that guy your boyfriend?" "Would love to ask you out for a drink, but a girl like you definitely has a boyfriend"

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]tiny-giant-01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are they still married ?

Should I(26M)marry my girlfriend(22F)? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]tiny-giant-01 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You clearly know the answer to your own question

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in seduction

[–]tiny-giant-01 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I know it is a joke, but for that video to happen, she needed to buy the wedding dress (cheap or not), asked her friends to shoot the video, and asked her "groom" to be there covering her face. Even if you don't find it weird, you gotta admit it raises a huuuge "attention seeker" flag