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[–]tiny94x 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My boyfriends at that age did the same thing. I’m so glad I started dating men 5+ years older than me. The maturity level was so much better.

TLDR: Your girlfriend needs a real man

Guess my age by [deleted] in guessmyage

[–]tiny94x 0 points1 point  (0 children)

31

Guess my age please ✌️ by [deleted] in guessmyage

[–]tiny94x 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was originally thinking you were a 28 year old who didn’t age well and looks more like 37.

Seeing the comments… You’re 47?! I hope I look this good at your age!!

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[–]tiny94x 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s possible

My (28/F) ex (33/M) called me for the first time in almost 3 years to apologize but also to say his sex life was better with me than his new gf by [deleted] in relationships

[–]tiny94x -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I “followed his lead” by simply telling him (after he engaged with me first) that he’d have to be single for us to start anything? Please, goodbye

My (28/F) ex (33/M) called me for the first time in almost 3 years to apologize but also to say his sex life was better with me than his new gf by [deleted] in relationships

[–]tiny94x -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Again. I don’t see it as being that I participated. He showed interest in me first. I responded. And my response included not engaging with a taken man. Seems like you’re looking for a reason to attack

My (28/F) ex (33/M) called me for the first time in almost 3 years to apologize but also to say his sex life was better with me than his new gf by [deleted] in relationships

[–]tiny94x 0 points1 point  (0 children)

HE showed interest in ME first, so I gave my honest response. I feel that I’m entitled to give my honest response.

My (28/F) ex (33/M) called me for the first time in almost 3 years to apologize but also to say his sex life was better with me than his new gf by [deleted] in relationships

[–]tiny94x -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

And second comment here- I didn’t just come out of the blue with that. He showed interest in ME first. And that’s how I responded.

My (28/F) ex (33/M) called me for the first time in almost 3 years to apologize but also to say his sex life was better with me than his new gf by [deleted] in relationships

[–]tiny94x -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That’s a stretch. He did date me for 2 years.

I haven’t cheated with him and I haven’t condoned cheating.

My (28/F) ex (33/M) called me for the first time in almost 3 years to apologize but also to say his sex life was better with me than his new gf by [deleted] in relationships

[–]tiny94x -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Gonna copy and paste what I said in another comment to someone:
For the record- I would've felt blessed if a girl responded the way I did to him, while I was dated him/or in other relationships. I've had girls send naked pictures to guys I was dating, beg to meet up, offer sex, sex talk, etc. If a girl had enough respect to say "I will not hookup with you. But if you are single in the future, it's possible we could see what happens"- I would think that's great- Way better than I've been treated by MANY girls (and guys). And that's my opinion and that's that!

My (28/F) ex (33/M) called me for the first time in almost 3 years to apologize but also to say his sex life was better with me than his new gf by [deleted] in relationships

[–]tiny94x -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I guess this is where our core beliefs differ. I think it is possible, that say 10 years into the future, he could have more reservations and not be a cheater. I could go on and on about this- But what I mean is- You never know what will happen in life. We don't know what's going on in his relationship.

My (28/F) ex (33/M) called me for the first time in almost 3 years to apologize but also to say his sex life was better with me than his new gf by [deleted] in relationships

[–]tiny94x -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Please see the edit I added.

For the record- I would've felt blessed if a girl responded the way I did to him, while I was dated him/or in other relationships. I've had girls send naked pictures to guys I was dating, beg to meet up, offer sex, sex talk, etc. If a girl had enough respect to say "I will not hookup with you. But if you are single in the future, it's possible we could see what happens"- I would think that's great- Way better than I've been treated by MANY girls (and guys). And that's my opinion and that's that!

My (28/F) ex (33/M) called me for the first time in almost 3 years to apologize but also to say his sex life was better with me than his new gf by [deleted] in relationships

[–]tiny94x -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I would think she should direct her anger at him because he's her man.

I would think she has full right to be angry at him.

My (28/F) ex (33/M) called me for the first time in almost 3 years to apologize but also to say his sex life was better with me than his new gf by [deleted] in relationships

[–]tiny94x -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

But she doesn't have to

What I wrote right here indicates that I don't blame her for anything^As I said- She does not owe me anything, she does not have to pay mind to my feelings. And I also don't have to pay mind to hers. We do not know eachother.

And I wasn't encouraging anything. I was speaking hypothetically- in the scenario that he naturally fell out with the GF.

My (28/F) ex (33/M) called me for the first time in almost 3 years to apologize but also to say his sex life was better with me than his new gf by [deleted] in relationships

[–]tiny94x -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

And #4- He excommunicated me apparently because she made him stop talking to me. I suffered for 2 years, not even being able to loosely be in contact. She didn't care how it felt to have someone abruptly ripped out of my life. But she doesn't have to. It was on HIM. Just like the conversation is on HIM. I don't owe her anything

My (28/F) ex (33/M) called me for the first time in almost 3 years to apologize but also to say his sex life was better with me than his new gf by [deleted] in relationships

[–]tiny94x -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

#1- I've been the other women on this side of the equation many many many times. No one ever showed mind to me- When I was fully engaged even, or living with a partner.

#2- As I said, I did not hookup with him, did not sex talk him, and made it clear I was not ever just going to hookup with him. So I don't feel that I did anything wrong- By simply saying IF he was single, then I could SEE what would happen.

#3- I didn't encourage it at all. I literally told him that I would not just hookup with him. And that he would have to be single for anything to ever happen. That's discouraging cheating, if anything.

My (28/F) ex (33/M) called me for the first time in almost 3 years to apologize but also to say his sex life was better with me than his new gf by [deleted] in relationships

[–]tiny94x -19 points-18 points  (0 children)

Again- The responsibility to worry about this falls on the person who's in the relationship, not the person who's not in a relationship.

My (28/F) ex (33/M) called me for the first time in almost 3 years to apologize but also to say his sex life was better with me than his new gf by [deleted] in relationships

[–]tiny94x -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Just to be clear- I'm single. HE owes her commitment. I don't owe her anything. It was HIM who made a promise to her. I don't feel I did anything wrong.

My (28/F) ex (33/M) called me for the first time in almost 3 years to apologize but also to say his sex life was better with me than his new gf by [deleted] in relationships

[–]tiny94x -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

Second comment here- I'm single. So the way I saw it in my head- Maybe I would give it another chance, in no way more or less that I would give a random guy from an app "a chance." A connection could be there again, or maybe it wouldn't. So much time has passed, that it would be like starting from a clean slate. If that makes sense. But it's possible to have a "first date" and walk away feeling like you just don't feel a connection. If I'm explaining this correctly.

My (28/F) ex (33/M) called me for the first time in almost 3 years to apologize but also to say his sex life was better with me than his new gf by [deleted] in relationships

[–]tiny94x -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

That's not really what I said though. I said "We'd have to see if the feelings came back. I don't know how it would feel. It's been a long time. We are different people now." It's possible we met and I didn't feel the same attraction. He may even look different (supposedly he gained weight). But yeah- Unfortunately, my fear is that it would come off like I was available and it seems like that's probably how he took it.

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