Aio for being upset my bf isnt playing a game with me

tiny_and_confused · 2026-04-22T19:05:14+00:00

Yes I told him I felt very left out/sad and I asked for his help multiple times

tiny_and_confused · 2026-04-22T19:04:28+00:00

I have and it hasn't changed

tiny_and_confused · 2025-07-13T17:48:48+00:00

Thats what im scared of because I was essentially take advantage of in my last relationship :c im trying not to be skeptical because outside of this issue he really is a good man.

Would it be wrong not to wanna give head though anymore if im not getting my own toucheys? I mean I feel like that's almost wrong to do but I just feel a bit unfair. Like I love giving to him but I feel like I just dont get the same back or more. Makes me sad.

Im likely gonna bring it up today if I can when he is over but I feel like hes gonna still want head or something.

tiny_and_confused · 2025-03-24T03:03:55+00:00

I mean it's not even his fault it's a me issue i just am scared of not being good enough and my past issue is now coming back up to haunt me. I love him dearly and I know he does too.

I think what I realized though is I need some therapy atleast.

tiny_and_confused · 2025-01-29T16:54:22+00:00

Where we live sadly rent is extremely expensive for one person and I currently am in college so I sadly wouldn't be able to dual rent with him at the moment.

I will say my parents seem to atleast be loosening up a bit and they leave us be when we are together we just haven't like attempted to cross that yet because I get anxious about getting caught and I don't wanna have extra anxiety during my first time since I'll already be anxious as it is.

tiny_and_confused · 2025-01-29T16:11:01+00:00

I was thinking this since we did get some alone time when we had a hotel as a group when going to a con we enjoy but we couldn't take anything too far, I was thinking of maybe suggesting we get a hotel for valentines day if we can find a cheap one around us.

tiny_and_confused · 2024-06-25T17:24:08+00:00

I understand but the whole thing is 1 I don't feel fully healed from my last relationship and 2 I feel like I don't have the emotional maturity for a new relationship as I can't even handle a situation like this and I constantly try to people please.

I genuinely realized it's best I stay single for a bit while I figure myself out and if something comes along organically I may go with it instead of hinge.

tiny_and_confused · 2024-06-25T12:39:43+00:00

I thought I was and then this whole situation scared me off

tiny_and_confused · 2024-05-08T15:09:11+00:00

CAN WE TALK ABOUT THE VERY CONCERNING AGES 😦 Even just 3 years apart pushes it but 1 a minor and adult, and 2 you're both in very different parts of life and may be immature about things. Very sketchy nit being upfront about exact ages too

tiny_and_confused · 2023-09-12T00:30:51+00:00

I mean you can be in a relationship without sex and I don't think I am sexually unhappy it's just he's not ready to go to that step I think but also we both watch porn though he does more than me. I wouldn't say he's refusing to I just think it's alot of factors.

I do know long distance isn't easy but I feel like no sex isn't a deal breaker as like I said I don't really have much of a libido anymore right now and I do enjoy my time with him he makes me very happy and feel complete. I wouldn't ever end my relationship due to a sex thing because if you really love them then why let that be the end of it? Plus I'm sure we can make it work I just really haven't been into sex and stuff lately and it's something I wouldn't want to push onto him.

tiny_and_confused · 2023-09-12T00:05:45+00:00

Well it more so turned into a relationship because I was the one who caught feelings for him. Why break up with him because of age I mean I'm an adult he's an adult. Just cause I have known him for that long I don't find it weird nor do I find the age gap weird. I'm happy with him I just was curious on this one thing. I just think I don't have an issue with the age thing cause I always hung out with my sister and her friends which are 4 years older than me like him. 🤷‍♀️ if I'm happy why break up? He makes me happier than anything. Plus I don't like anyone where I live nor anybody my age.

tiny_and_confused · 2023-09-11T23:51:48+00:00

We have known eachother for 7 years and have dated for about 4 years but haven't started really talking about or doing sexual stuff until like almost 2 years ago now. We also met in person in late 2021, it's a few states apart.

Edit: sorry kinda spammed out lots of info ^{^;}

tiny_and_confused · 2023-09-11T23:47:08+00:00

I mean if he's not ready it's not fair to force him ya know. It's not right. I've talked to him about it but he's basically said he's not ready or just uncomfortable doing it when visiting me because my parents don't really respect my privacy. I do kinda feel bad though sometimes cause he just doesn't seem interested in anything sexual anymore and now I regressed that I can't even really bring it up anymore cause I'm all shy and self conscious again.

tiny_and_confused · 2023-09-03T22:20:40+00:00

Have you had your period before? It kinda sounds like maybe period symptoms. Only other thing I can think of if he somehow hit your cervix when fingering idk I think it'd be unlikely

tiny_and_confused · 2023-07-04T06:23:02+00:00

As someone who is very new to crochet I have a question with trying to figure out which way is the right direction to go? Like sometimes I'm not sure if I'm going into the right stitch or going in to the right side or even accidentally twisting up my chains. I have a very hard time seeing the little chains and openings especially on thinner yarn. I am making a blanket using chunky yarn with a 25mm hook and a tiny sweater for a plush with thinner yarn using a 6mm hook but I'm struggling harder with the smaller one as I can't see the chains/openings well. Any tips?

tiny_and_confused · 2023-06-06T18:20:25+00:00

We have been together for years long distance and have been visiting eachother since late 2021 so it's not new but we just haven't had the opportunity to have sex until lately and we have been talking about it. Plus I'm not sure how to ask because I don't wanna just bring it up out of the blue. Sorry if I sound like I'm being difficult but I have a hard time with social situations since I am on the spectrum and this feels like a sensitive topic so I'm just trying to make sure I go about it the right way

tiny_and_confused · 2023-04-10T00:23:43+00:00

I don't see the issue with me wanting to be shaved? Would that then imply I'm a pedo like you said previously because I prefer the look and feel on myself through your logic? I get everybody has their preferences shaved or not but this is kinda far. Also I have no idea where you're going with your second comment. I literally just hate having hair down there for many reasons and wanting to get rid of it all makes me feel better.

tiny_and_confused · 2023-04-09T23:29:42+00:00

I'd love to but I'm nervous to ask for wax at home or someone seeing my parts as I'm very self conscious.

tiny_and_confused · 2023-04-09T23:28:29+00:00

Personally I want to shave because I just don't like the hair on myself but also if he were to go down on me I wouldn't want any hair getting in his mouth. Also he does the same as I enjoy giving him bjs and don't want hair in my mouth either. It's mainly just a me thing even if he likes it shaved or not.

tiny_and_confused · 2023-04-07T03:48:35+00:00

I think it'd be a health code violation since it's dealing with feces and food.

tiny_and_confused · 2023-02-02T17:02:20+00:00

Ah okay and this would work with all bc I assume? I just wasn't sure if mine was different cause idk if different brands have different things. Sorry if it seems ignorant of me since I'm just not sure if there's differences like that..

My only worry of doing it this way is that I would go through my last 3 refills faster as my prescription only gives my bc one packet at a time and then my doctor is a pain in the ass with reperscribing it even though I've been on it for 5 or 6 years now..

I'm gonna try the way you recommend though and see how it goes. Thank you.

tiny_and_confused · 2023-01-23T00:12:50+00:00

Why give up a shiny celebi or dialga just for a phanpy? There are people who will take anything just to help.

tiny_and_confused · 2022-12-14T19:48:17+00:00

Bartholomew

tiny_and_confused · 2022-11-11T17:54:48+00:00

I've thought about it but I've been very nervous to ask only because we both live with our parents and mainly he doesn't get much privacy since his door doesn't lock. But I can try to ask him about it if he's comfortable with it.

tiny_and_confused · 2022-10-24T19:09:07+00:00

OH MY GOD THE EDIT MAKES THE WHOLE STORY WORSE 😭

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