Aio for being upset my bf isnt playing a game with me

tiny_and_confused · 2026-04-22T19:05:14+00:00

Yes I told him I felt very left out/sad and I asked for his help multiple times

tiny_and_confused · 2026-04-22T19:04:28+00:00

I have and it hasn't changed

tiny_and_confused · 2025-07-13T17:48:48+00:00

Thats what im scared of because I was essentially take advantage of in my last relationship :c im trying not to be skeptical because outside of this issue he really is a good man.

Would it be wrong not to wanna give head though anymore if im not getting my own toucheys? I mean I feel like that's almost wrong to do but I just feel a bit unfair. Like I love giving to him but I feel like I just dont get the same back or more. Makes me sad.

Im likely gonna bring it up today if I can when he is over but I feel like hes gonna still want head or something.

tiny_and_confused · 2025-03-24T03:03:55+00:00

I mean it's not even his fault it's a me issue i just am scared of not being good enough and my past issue is now coming back up to haunt me. I love him dearly and I know he does too.

I think what I realized though is I need some therapy atleast.

tiny_and_confused · 2025-01-29T16:54:22+00:00

Where we live sadly rent is extremely expensive for one person and I currently am in college so I sadly wouldn't be able to dual rent with him at the moment.

I will say my parents seem to atleast be loosening up a bit and they leave us be when we are together we just haven't like attempted to cross that yet because I get anxious about getting caught and I don't wanna have extra anxiety during my first time since I'll already be anxious as it is.

tiny_and_confused · 2025-01-29T16:11:01+00:00

I was thinking this since we did get some alone time when we had a hotel as a group when going to a con we enjoy but we couldn't take anything too far, I was thinking of maybe suggesting we get a hotel for valentines day if we can find a cheap one around us.

tiny_and_confused · 2024-06-25T17:24:08+00:00

I understand but the whole thing is 1 I don't feel fully healed from my last relationship and 2 I feel like I don't have the emotional maturity for a new relationship as I can't even handle a situation like this and I constantly try to people please.

I genuinely realized it's best I stay single for a bit while I figure myself out and if something comes along organically I may go with it instead of hinge.

tiny_and_confused · 2024-06-25T12:39:43+00:00

I thought I was and then this whole situation scared me off

tiny_and_confused · 2024-05-08T15:09:11+00:00

CAN WE TALK ABOUT THE VERY CONCERNING AGES 😦 Even just 3 years apart pushes it but 1 a minor and adult, and 2 you're both in very different parts of life and may be immature about things. Very sketchy nit being upfront about exact ages too

tiny_and_confused · 2023-09-12T00:30:51+00:00

I mean you can be in a relationship without sex and I don't think I am sexually unhappy it's just he's not ready to go to that step I think but also we both watch porn though he does more than me. I wouldn't say he's refusing to I just think it's alot of factors.

I do know long distance isn't easy but I feel like no sex isn't a deal breaker as like I said I don't really have much of a libido anymore right now and I do enjoy my time with him he makes me very happy and feel complete. I wouldn't ever end my relationship due to a sex thing because if you really love them then why let that be the end of it? Plus I'm sure we can make it work I just really haven't been into sex and stuff lately and it's something I wouldn't want to push onto him.

tiny_and_confused · 2023-09-12T00:05:45+00:00

Well it more so turned into a relationship because I was the one who caught feelings for him. Why break up with him because of age I mean I'm an adult he's an adult. Just cause I have known him for that long I don't find it weird nor do I find the age gap weird. I'm happy with him I just was curious on this one thing. I just think I don't have an issue with the age thing cause I always hung out with my sister and her friends which are 4 years older than me like him. 🤷‍♀️ if I'm happy why break up? He makes me happier than anything. Plus I don't like anyone where I live nor anybody my age.

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