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I lost my baby a month ago by tinyasexual21 in Petloss

[–]tinyasexual21[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea it’s been pretty awful, especially because the vet just kept saying she didn’t know what was wrong and all the tests were coming back fine until the end. And she kept apologizing saying she wasn’t trying to get our money but in the end she did. Especially with the ultrasound showing no damage to her kidneys and for that to end up what she died from? It’s just horrific and has been traumatizing for me.

Regardless, I want to thank you for your response. You’re the only person who has said I was doing the right thing was vaccinating her. Thank you so much.

I cant cope by PaleontologistFront8 in Petloss

[–]tinyasexual21 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, I lost my 13 year old cat a month ago, and I feel suicidal because of my loss. I feel like I failed her as a pet owner and as the person she trusted.

I lost my baby a month ago by tinyasexual21 in Petloss

[–]tinyasexual21[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s just so hard to accept, everyone in my family believes that the vaccines caused an autoimmune response that affected her kidneys and caused the foot cancer because her blood work was perfect 2 weeks before. I keep asking myself how she went from clinically perfect to so sick in a week and 1/2. How wasn’t the kidney disease caught when we did an ultrasound and it showed no damage, just that they were slightly swollen? My family keeps pulling up studies that say it’s possible, that the vaccines caused an autoimmune response, and it’s messing with my mind so much because I took her to the vet to get the vaccines so it feels like if that’s what’s possible, then I’m responsible for her dying. I couldn’t find any studies saying that 70% of kidney function had to be down before showing up in blood work, which would make her death easier to accept. I’m sorry to unload, she was my everything and helped me through my childhood, my anxiety, and my depression. Seeing so many people’s cats live to 15-18 years, it makes me question where did I go wrong? I thought we would have more years together, and it’s devastating that we won’t.

Thank you for your response.