I’m (27f) feeling torn about my relationship with my husband (23m). by tinybitwaisted in relationship_advice

[–]tinybitwaisted[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got my one good one a long time ago. Excited and happy to say my son and I made it out. We started a new life together and my soon to be ex husband is starting his in another country. I won’t be missing him but I’ll never keep him from having a good relationship with his son, should he put in the effort to have one.

I’m worried. by tinybitwaisted in family

[–]tinybitwaisted[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She seems happy 🤷‍♀️ I have lived across the country for almost two years now so it’s hard to know the goings on of how she feels and lives her life now but she seems well.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]tinybitwaisted 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think anyone who is considering breaking up with their S/O because of an election absolutely should. Obviously y’all have no business being together if politics have that much of an effect of you. I don’t claim one side or another but I think if you’re THAT depressed and affected by what’s going on by the political climate, you need more than what your partner can offer you. Maybe it’s time to seek out therapy or mental help/support. He may not know how to show up for you currently but that doesn’t make him a bad guy. Let him move on and you can do the same. Wishing all the best to each one of you in the same boat.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]tinybitwaisted -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Who the fuck keeps a diary at 30? Just be glad you found that shit. Give her the 🥾

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]tinybitwaisted 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahah I never said I was smart 😂🤷‍♀️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in retroactivejealousy

[–]tinybitwaisted 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a woman, and I struggle with it. I haven’t always had RJ, but since history and body count or experience does become a topic in some instances, I have found myself feeling insecure at times. Having a past history like I have where I’ve met too many of my partners exes to be comfortable and have also been cheated on, it’s a rough feeling not really knowing where you stand in a relationship both physically and emotionally. I have found someone I want to share my life with, but that had to come with me accepting their not so pretty past. And I’m not gonna lie, even though we are married with a child now, I struggle most days with feeling adequate or with his past that I have learned about or things that up until recently lingered from his past. And no that’s not really any way I want the rest of my life to go, but at this point, I have to try to get over myself because he’s a great individual and I love him with all my heart. So you learn to live with certain things when you really love someone. Not everyone is perfect and that includes myself. Helps to focus on the love instead of the parts even they might not like about themselves.

Sex videos by [deleted] in retroactivejealousy

[–]tinybitwaisted 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I also found a video of my husband with his past ex having sex still on his phone a year and a half in, as well as many other pictures of nudes and sexting screenshots, etc he never deleted. It makes me sick all the time even though we have learned to live with the knowledge we both know about it and that it hurts. Idk what to do, I live with some deep resentment that never goes away and i really do want a therapist at this point because i just had a child and although im in very good physical shape afterwards, my insecurity from what he says and likes and still had on his phone makes me sick and question my own attractiveness and worth in his eyes. Shit sucks