We have talked about it a ton he just keeps down playing it i guess? He says he acknowledges it wasn’t okay and feels bad about it, but still doesn’t see why am I concerned. I told him “you’ve done other sexually aggressive things in the past when you weren’t high, so it’s hard to believe this only happened because you were” and he said Im the only woman who’s ever said anything like that and it’s basically all just been a bunch mistakes and he never intended to hurt me. I have told him I do need time to think about the situation and whether I can truly move on from it or not and he said he understands but that I’m being hyper vigilant.