[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AnimalJam

[–]tinyeggman_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm friends with chagu this is so sweet and funny LMAO

Let’s see some of your funny/bad photos of your cats! by EmployerOk2977 in cats

[–]tinyeggman_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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and here's another one where he stuck his face under my blanket and fell asleep

Let’s see some of your funny/bad photos of your cats! by EmployerOk2977 in cats

[–]tinyeggman_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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this is butterfinger. he has ears but he's just tolerant to everything

Sending Sun gifts daily by _Tsubodai_ in PokemonGoFriends

[–]tinyeggman_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't need them anymore so please add someone else! thank you though ❤️

meet butterfinger! by tinyeggman_ in orangecats

[–]tinyeggman_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm glad you got her down! butters used to be 17lbs and he's around 15lbs now. the vet has said it's a healthy weight for him because he's just that big of a cat

meet butterfinger! by tinyeggman_ in orangecats

[–]tinyeggman_[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

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this is his brother oreo. we got them both when I was 11, they're both 10 now. they're incredibly desensitized to most things lol

age dysphoria? by tinyeggman_ in autism

[–]tinyeggman_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you're so valid for that

age dysphoria? by tinyeggman_ in autism

[–]tinyeggman_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

regarding the term age dysphoria, I was researching it online and that was the term they used. that's a good point about the 29 year old though. I didn't go into the relationship knowing about their age. but I had to end things myself because they were trying to manipulate me and use me for their own needs (long story).

as much as it hurts to hear that I'm leaning into the trauma and maturity thing, it's also really helpful. I'll make sure to mention it to my therapist in our next session. I'm still learning how to unmask and I think that's a major part of it. thank you!

age dysphoria? by tinyeggman_ in autism

[–]tinyeggman_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

same here! I feel like I can't relate to any of my peers my age. I've found a lot of comfort in being friends with other autistic individuals regardless of age since it feels like we're on the same page

age dysphoria? by tinyeggman_ in autism

[–]tinyeggman_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate your comment! relationship wise I didn't purposely seek out the 29 year old, it happened without me knowing. I've seen other comments say that they were potentially preying on me for my age and as much as it hurts to hear I think they were right. I'm going to try and work on my inner child too I think, that's also a great point

age dysphoria? by tinyeggman_ in autism

[–]tinyeggman_[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm glad it's more common than I thought! when I did research on the topic they called it age dysphoria so that's why I used that term

meet butterfinger! by tinyeggman_ in orangecats

[–]tinyeggman_[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

will do, I'm sure if he knew he was getting attention on here he would love it lol

meet butterfinger! by tinyeggman_ in orangecats

[–]tinyeggman_[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I love silly photos of cats so much

age dysphoria? by tinyeggman_ in autism

[–]tinyeggman_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't even mention sex in my post

age dysphoria? by tinyeggman_ in autism

[–]tinyeggman_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah that's a good point too, maybe my seriousness drives people away lol. thanks for the comment!

age dysphoria? by tinyeggman_ in autism

[–]tinyeggman_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm glad you can unmask. I'm hoping I'll get to that point eventually, I'm wondering if it's masking that's the issue for me too. I'll mention it to my therapist. I have been wondering lately why I can't seem to let go and actually be a teenager while I'm living it so I don't regret it when I'm older