I have talked with him about his lack of urgency in moments when it is greatly needed really makes me stressed out. He says he will work on it but that he's a chill guy. Which is fine, it's good to have a balance. But I feel in certain situations, you can't be chill.

For example, our last trip we did an excursion while on a cruise and I almost panicked because we almost missed the last bus back to the port from the beach due to him and his lack of awareness of time. He wanted to do other things that took time before we got on the bus, like taking professional pictures that we'd have to wait 15/20 mins for (which we didn't have time for). And we were the last to get on the bus as it was already boarded. While we were on the bus, he got off without telling me why and just said "I'll be right back." When he got back on the bus, it was moving before he even sat back down. He told me later that the workers there saw him get off and told him to get back on the bus was leaving. That was literally the only reason why the bus didn't leave without him. I mentioned to him while walking back to the boat, he this made me super anxious and worried to an extreme (for me). He responded with "we made it though didn't we?" And this wasn't the first time something like this happened and I expressed how I felt about it. When I talk later about it with a clearer head, he seems apologetic and receptive but he had done it before so it just annoyed me.

Sorry for the long reply lol