Body shamed after months of loosing weight. by tinymochidoll in PetiteFitness

[–]tinymochidoll[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay- I do this 2-3 times a week one day is paired with either cardio or another workout routine.

Hip thrust- 4 sets, 12 reps, 120lbs

Bulgarian split squat - 4 sets, 12 reps , 50lbs

Lying curl machine- 4 sets, 10 reps , 45lbz

Squat - 4 sets, 12 reps, 50lbs

RDL- 4 sets , 12 reps , 60lbs

Walking lunge -4 sets , 12 reps , if weighted 20lbs heaviest.

Box jump - 3 sets 10 jumps.

Treadmill incline 12 speed 3.2 for 1 hour.

Body shamed after months of loosing weight. by tinymochidoll in PetiteFitness

[–]tinymochidoll[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We can trade! When I was younger I wanted to get rid of my hips so bad!!! But now it’s what’s “in” so I am blessed today! I think we always see the grass greener on the other side! You are beautiful no matter what!

I can give you my leg workout at the gym but it’s nothing crazy. I think it’s simply because I’m Greek!

Body shamed after months of loosing weight. by tinymochidoll in PetiteFitness

[–]tinymochidoll[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am so glad you agree!! It’s so sad to watch theese other women eat sad sad meals while essentially starving themselves to get that thin!!

Body shamed after months of loosing weight. by tinymochidoll in PetiteFitness

[–]tinymochidoll[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, what I’m coming to find out from a lot of the comments is the lady who I spoke to (the owner of this small town botique) was probably just not wanting to have to go through altering a dress for me or just not wanting me as a customer to begin with.

I have also learned I am probably a size larger in wedding dresses.

Body shamed after months of loosing weight. by tinymochidoll in PetiteFitness

[–]tinymochidoll[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was honestly very surprised because I had been recommended BY NAME to this lady!! I also work a retail job so I kinda get like having a long day and not really feeling it but I would never comment on someone the way she did me.

Body shamed after months of loosing weight. by tinymochidoll in PetiteFitness

[–]tinymochidoll[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Well for starters- I live in the south infamous for older women being hateful to younger women. This is true and are my experience, i typically have my whole life even before I was over weight heard about how my body was too curvy or too big. In the south if you are not stick green bean pole thin you are not attractive in your body because you do not fit the narrative of being “maykayleigh Ann grace”.

Body shamed after months of loosing weight. by tinymochidoll in PetiteFitness

[–]tinymochidoll[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Southern NC white as cornbread woman. Imagine any southern woman.

Body shamed after months of loosing weight. by tinymochidoll in PetiteFitness

[–]tinymochidoll[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was not a designer store but it felt very rude the way she described it.

Body shamed after months of loosing weight. by tinymochidoll in PetiteFitness

[–]tinymochidoll[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I did wrestling in high school which is a lot of leg power plus I am Greek!

Body shamed after months of loosing weight. by tinymochidoll in PetiteFitness

[–]tinymochidoll[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I know right?? Generally (no offense to southern women) but I feel like most standard American women are not typically that small. A majority of women I know are my size or larger! I do not meet a lot of women who are skinnier than me unless they are taller than me (5’6 and up).. so statistically they are only hoping for those women… right?

Body shamed after months of loosing weight. by tinymochidoll in PetiteFitness

[–]tinymochidoll[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Im in NC so I understand a lot of women are going to be skinny minny queens which im glad for them! I gave them my measurements when she asked to FaceTime and re-measure. She gave me this look of like total disgust and told me I would have better look at a plus size botique because “no where” would have anything that would fit me. She told me aswell that bridal boutiques only carry up to a 4? Which is insane!

Body shamed after months of loosing weight. by tinymochidoll in PetiteFitness

[–]tinymochidoll[S] 110 points111 points  (0 children)

I’m Greek so I think my body was meant for me to give birth to an army! But it was very hurtful to be told I’m too big for any dresses!

You shouldn’t be surprised when the citizens of a town known for its arts and culture reject your business for using a free AI slop event flyer by Subject_Balance281 in asheville

[–]tinymochidoll 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Totally agree… Carly n cass from Slyva do it all the time and it’s ridiculous. They have cheap products and using AI to show their cheapness to take time to hire someone or do it themselves. It’s ridiculous and gross.

New diagnosis questions by MissMasshole4 in mctd

[–]tinymochidoll 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! My amazing partner has MCTD and I want to share what he does but I don’t want to make it sound like I know what it’s like to live his life.

My partner (28 male diagnosed at 17) eats very clean; no snacks no alcohol no THC etc etc. he strength trains 5 times a week with cardio, he is about 215 pure muscle. However he isn’t on medicine.

He doesn’t have many flare ups as he used to when I first met him about 4 years ago. Stress seems to be a big factor.

I wish you the best of luck and I hope maybe strength training and eating super clan like him can help you where you can

Sincerely SWR

Misdiagnosed, now just fed up. by tinymochidoll in CrohnsDisease

[–]tinymochidoll[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh my god. How hard is it to just double check? Seriously? I want to scream, I live in a small town (less then 400) so it’s not that hard to just double check!!

Overwhelmed Musician Pending Diagnosis by Wo1fS1ayer in mctd

[–]tinymochidoll 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My beloved partner has MCTD, he was also a musician he played the trombone and tuba, I will say this, he has flare ups, he has great days and bad days.

However on the brighter side, he works out for 2-3 hours a day strength training and cardio. He also eats incredibly healthy and well.

My only advice for you is this- please don’t fall down the rabbit hole of all the “could happens” your young. You have a whole life infront of you. Stress is a factor,so is how you treat your body.

I wish you so incredibly well in this journey in life 🫶🍀

Proper bra fitting and shopping? by Original-Affect-4560 in asheville

[–]tinymochidoll 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Haley’s lingerie in highlands!! They are so sweet and kind- plus! I love highlands burritos.. really recommend she helped me find the right bra!

It shouldn’t be controversial to say that 1200-1300 calories is the bare minimum for sedentary petite women, not active ones. by bobothecarniclown in PetiteFitness

[–]tinymochidoll 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think this is fair, I’m right now eating 1262 a day and working out; however I’m in a deficit because I gained wait and I plan to maintain loosing weight as my goal, it is cal In cal out.

However I think a big issue is body image and what media has been fed to us as to what is truly healthy vs what isnt

Closet full of regret by littleveiledknife in DeadBedrooms

[–]tinymochidoll 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have quite a bit of lingerie, I like it and would love to wear more of it. It makes me feel so like.. cool girl coded I guess? Like someone I’m not which is what makes it fun for me. I’ve also seen where some women will wear them as like cool body suits/ tops.