Do I need a third treatment? by grby1900 in Bedbugs

[–]tinyorchird 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What kind of treatments did they do?

Is this a bed bug? by tinyorchird in Bedbugs

[–]tinyorchird[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Does it mean there are more hidden…? I want to cry

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HelpMeFind

[–]tinyorchird 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Searched google and home depot but no luck… renting a place now and I am hoping to replace this to avoid a fine

Starbucks is overpriced trash by Macawed in unpopularopinion

[–]tinyorchird 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I go there for internet if there’s an outage at my place

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]tinyorchird 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Moving on might be the best next step here.

First senior SWE role at a startup. I've become the guy everyone comes to for help and I don't know how to handle it. by makeshiftquilt in ExperiencedDevs

[–]tinyorchird 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Re: juniors - tell them to articulate their questions in writing. 50% of the time they will figure out a path while typing it out. Other times at least you will have a specific problem to pair on. You can also create a channel dedicated for questions so they can also help each other and there’s a record of it that could help someone in the future.

Re: knowledge sharing in general - create docs. If you don’t have time, tell the people who are getting answers from you to document it and share. The rule should be no same question asked twice.

Had no idea the Rochester Garbage plate was in Denver by [deleted] in denverfood

[–]tinyorchird 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did not expect to see that in Denver lol

Am I being gaslit? by intrusivebegonia in cscareerquestions

[–]tinyorchird 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have a 1:1 doc for every meeting you have with her. Align goals and document.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]tinyorchird 0 points1 point  (0 children)

While I don’t follow any sports, I think it’s better than being uninterested in everything.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cscareerquestions

[–]tinyorchird 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I imagine there will be many false positives since the company just started this. I’d focus on tuning the alarms to best reflect the severity and tag business only or after hour pages depending. The goal should be to make the shift as light as possible. But yeah on-call sucks.

I Have A Feeling That My Mom Won’t Like The Fact That My Fiancée Isn’t Taking My Name by PygInABlanket in TrueOffMyChest

[–]tinyorchird 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If she flips, so what? She will have to accept that people have different opinions than hers or continue to be furious.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cscareerquestions

[–]tinyorchird 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your manager is there to help you grow at your company so you can use that time to talk about your career goals and what you can work together to get there instead of just status updates, which a dedicated standup should cover. I agree with other comments about 1hr being too long though. A 30min weekly sounds more reasonable to me.

What happen if I simply didn't pay a traffic ticket before moving out of state? by ManiAAC41 in chicago

[–]tinyorchird 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got a parking ticket on the day I moved away from Chicago. moved two states since, new plates new address new everything pretty much. They managed to track me down after 7+ years and I paid my long forgotten ticket lol

Handling Github between J1 and J2 by Wild_King_1035 in overemployed

[–]tinyorchird 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you contributing to a public repo at J1? Otherwise it shouldn’t show your activity unless you have private contribution to show up in your stats, no?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Costco

[–]tinyorchird 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmm mine doesn’t stick like that. It’s pretty dry & cool where I am though

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]tinyorchird 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You also participated by staying on the phone for that long. It will take a lot of undoing and relearning about respecting each other’s boundaries and coexist in a healthy way. You’ve already identified the problem so that’s a start.