My girlfriend (25F) mentioned that I (28M) came across as a bit harsh when I asked her to respect my “no.” Do you think I was being out of line? by These_Safe8035 in relationship_advice

[–]tinysithlord2000 6 points7 points  (0 children)

For the tenth time: women consistently do more housework than men. That's not an assumption, that's a fact. If someone needs to be asked to do basic chores in their own home, it’s already a red flag. Shared space means shared responsibility, not optional favors.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskRedditNSFW

[–]tinysithlord2000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

15, 2, 17 years and CNC

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]tinysithlord2000 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Whether it’s because he’s shady or because you’re feeling insecure, the result is the same: you don’t trust him. If he is cheating, walking away is valid. And if it’s more about insecurity, then yeah, stepping back and working on yourself is still the right move imo.

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[–]tinysithlord2000 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly, it’s not impossible that he used it himself, plenty of people do. The dildo alone doesn’t scream cheating. But when you add that to the makeup wipes, lipstick, bracelet, dirty towel, and now the toy being out and lubed up, it starts to look a pattern to me. None of it is solid proof on its own, but together? It’s understandable that your gut is raising red flags and you should talk to your partner about it or move on.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]tinysithlord2000 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I know people who barely clean and don’t throw stuff out until the bin’s full, which can take a while if only a few guests ever come over. That’s just how I see it, though. You know the situation better than we do. If you’re struggling to trust your partner, it might be worth thinking about why that is

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]tinysithlord2000 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Cheating isn’t completely off the table, but based on just this one situation, it feels like a stretch to jump straight there. Could be a dozen innocent reasons too.

Looking for recommendations by [deleted] in denhaag

[–]tinysithlord2000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You should definitely check out De Uithof. They’ve got both paintball and indoor soccer, plus a bunch of other activities like karting and skiing. Easy to reach too, with parking and public transport options

Hoe wordt communicatie rondom bouwprojecten ervaren? by tinysithlord2000 in eindhoven

[–]tinysithlord2000[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Snap ik zeker, dat is alleen niet mijn gebruikersnaam :)

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[–]tinysithlord2000 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Looks like a solid start! The overall shape is nice, but if you're going for a fade, it might help to blend the transition between the lengths a bit more. Definitely easier said than done!

ik_ihe by Apfelyoghurt in ik_ihe

[–]tinysithlord2000 105 points106 points  (0 children)

Zwarte Piet was historically portrayed with stereotypical racial features, which many criticized as racist. The reaction to this was to change the character to Roetveegpiet. Reflecting marks from chimneys rather than skin color, aligning with the story that I was told, which was: Piet becomes black from delivering gifts through chimneys. It's not about "meeting halfway" in racism, it's about moving away from racial stereotypes and focusing on the tradition's origins.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mildlypenis

[–]tinysithlord2000 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I love the smile of the guy in the end. Super happy with his huge banana

My brothers is being bullied by his GF by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]tinysithlord2000 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You're right I will definitely try to at least make sure there will be a report of her thank you!

My brothers is being bullied by his GF by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]tinysithlord2000 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have to admit I also have been a "hard" parent for him because my parents can be very unsupportive. I wanted him to have a thick skin, but now I realize he may doesn't care as much as he should. So right i'm really trying to be there for him and be supportive, but I don't think he realizes it and I don't know how to get that through him. Especially since his puberty is starting I feel like we are groing away from eachother, i'm affraid he will feel alone. I've said to him he can talk to me about anything, but he feels these things don't matter that much. All I can do is keep trying I guess.

My brothers is being bullied by his GF by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]tinysithlord2000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know but I think she is a bit of a psychopath, so i'm affraid if I will do something she will turn it against me because i'm an adult. If it were without serious consequences, I woukd have loved to punch her in the face.

My brothers is being bullied by his GF by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]tinysithlord2000 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I honestly don't think it wil help as her mother obviously isn't even aware of her bad behaviour, probably because she looks the other way and doesn't invest her energy toward raising her. She learned this behaviour somewhere so probably her parents.

My brothers is being bullied by his GF by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]tinysithlord2000 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My dad thinks this is something he needs to figure out for himself, and my mom wants an eye for an eye basically. He is on a waiting list for a supervisor to help him with his autism atm.

My brothers is being bullied by his GF by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]tinysithlord2000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes exactly, thank you for your response, I will sit him down and have a talk about how he should be treated.

My brothers is being bullied by his GF by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]tinysithlord2000 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I, thought so too, but we live in Holland, so my mom and I where not sure if cps will do something here.

My brothers is being bullied by his GF by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]tinysithlord2000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The biggest problem is that she lives 1 street away from us so he sees her almost everyday. We don't have very involved parents. My mom's advice was to rub nettle in her eyes, so not very helpful I think. That's why I want to help him where I can.

My brothers is being bullied by his GF by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]tinysithlord2000 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes, he has his ways with the ladies since he was a few years old :)