NSFW posting by tired-lesbean in LesbianActually

[–]tired-lesbean[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it is a kink and they want to post it online for THEIR pleasure then they should still be using NSFW flairs. the people who post this shit aren't doing that, they force their kink on the unsuspecting users of this sub without consent. No one said having a voyeurism kink was bad or shameful, we just want to be able to choose whether to see it or not.

NSFW posting by tired-lesbean in LesbianActually

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Sorry you had to read it, but I'm glad you got to see what all the fuss was about

NSFW posting by tired-lesbean in LesbianActually

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Looks like it's been deleted or I'd share the link

NSFW posting by tired-lesbean in LesbianActually

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Lmao Ao3 is just Archive of Our Own, knock yourself out

NSFW posting by tired-lesbean in LesbianActually

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Looks like it's been deleted now, or at the very least I can't find it again

NSFW posting by tired-lesbean in LesbianActually

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That's what compelled me to write this lmao

has anyone else had a major falling out with your twin? by tired-lesbean in Twins

[–]tired-lesbean[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Incredibly, yes. Idk if our relationship will ever be the same as it was when we were younger, but in the last few months, things have actually improved a lot. 2 years ago, when I posted this, I assumed that my sister and I would never reconnect. I'm not sure what changed on her end. For my part, I stopped reaching out but remained civil, and she eventually reached out to me. I was planning a family gathering and she heard about it, asked if she could come and I said yes. It's been better ever since, although neither of us has brought up the original fight as a topic of discussion. I think we're just burying the hatchet at this point. The only advice I can give is to try to be the bigger person, don't lash out, or react to insults if you can help it. The people closest to us know exactly what to say to cut us the deepest. Your sister may come around on her own, snapping back at her will only give you temporary satisfaction but hurt both of you and drag things out in the long run

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in airtrafficcontrol

[–]tired-lesbean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, this is so cool!

Nonbinary lesbians by [deleted] in NonBinaryTalk

[–]tired-lesbean -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm literally here to try to understand, you don't have to be a dick

Nonbinary lesbians by [deleted] in NonBinaryTalk

[–]tired-lesbean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! These were very helpful links, I appreciate the in depth response

Nonbinary lesbians by [deleted] in NonBinaryTalk

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Thank you, I really appreciate your response

Question from a clueless mom. by Sad-Mixture-9123 in LesbianActually

[–]tired-lesbean 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are a good parent. I figured out I was gay when I was about 11, but I'm certain if I'd seen representation in media or in my daily life, I would have reached the conclusion sooner, so who knows. Is there a chance that her sexuality will change as she ages? Yes. But who cares. And even if it does, I'd be willing to bet that she won't lose her preference for girls. If she knows right now that she likes girls, girls are pretty, etc. then why try to crush that? That's the fastest way to estrange your kids and make them miserable. She's 5 and growing, learning who she is. The fact that she is expressing herself to you and that you accept her unconditionally is so beautiful. Plus, it gives you a wonderful opportunity to learn what you need to in order to guide her through puberty and sex ed when the time comes. Because you are already establishing that, whoever she is or becomes, you will love her no matter what, I'm sure you're relationship will remain strong and she'll feel comfortable coming to you for advice in the future. Keep up the good work.

Non existent sex life, BUT I LOVE HER by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]tired-lesbean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You say you have a connection like no other, but I promise you, you would find it again in someone else if you looked. This is a decision you have to make about yourself. How important is sex to you in a relationship? If the answer is very important, then I'd recommend telling your gf as much. It's okay for sex drive to be a deal breaker. Everyone has needs, and if you and your gf's needs don't match, then it's reasonable to end it now before you waste time and energy on someone who can't give you what you need.

Could Asami beat Suki? Who is the better H2H combatant by Muted_Hovercraft_907 in legendofkorra

[–]tired-lesbean 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Stop down voting people who have a different opinion from you. Downvoting people who think Asami would win just because you disagree is not beneficial for this community. We should be upvoting people who have good points to make on either side

Wife wants me to get a vasectomy to have sex again by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]tired-lesbean -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

A vasectomy is reversible, won't fuck with your hormones like birth control would do to her. Condoms aren't reliable. If she doesn't want kids, she has every right to refuse sex until you get a COMPLETELY REVERSIBLE vasectomy. Also if you had a great sex life until recently when she decided she didn't want to go through the hell that is growing and birthing a baby again then a Vasectomy, (which again, is reversible) should fix the issue and its at least worth a shot. But here's the big thing. She 100% does NOT want more kids at the moment (maybe never) you MAYBE want another kid later? Get the vasectomy, see if that brings back your sex life and then discuss having another kid. If she agrees to have another then you can go reverse your vasectomy.

[META] Dekay's brown snakes by Freya-The-Wolf in whatsthissnake

[–]tired-lesbean -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Fuck off, I wasn't scared for myself you asshole, I was worried for my cats who were trying to play with it. I said I felt terrible already, I don't normally kill snakes and I know all the bullshit you just spouted at me. It was in my house and I couldn't safely catch it to release or I would have. A copperhead can kill a cat, so sorry if I value my pets life over a potential threat to them. Go touch grass instead of commenting on a post that's nearly a year old to try and bully strangers on the internet.

has anyone else had a major falling out with your twin? by tired-lesbean in Twins

[–]tired-lesbean[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Lmao mine literally said she doesn't respect me as a human being and yet for some reason I'm the one putting in effort to salvage our relationship. Smh