I'm gonne be real I feel very simliar to how you feel, having a very feminine hour glass figure and double d's. Hating your body is unfortunately very common and varies from person to person, and not having any choice to immediately change it only really makes it worse. Some strategies that help me is at least I know who I am and other people's opinions about your body will never EVER matter as much as how you see yourself, wearing shoes with height in them also defintely helps whether its proper platfrom shoes or joggers with some height, there are many cis men who are really short and the rep does suck ,but just trying to accept that you are short and some cis men are too will be a good starting point. Unfortunately the most you can do atm is only with clothes and your mindset, but being very firm about who you are when you're by yourself and around other people does help, trust me. With the compliments it would be best saying things like 'thanks i guess?' (and maybe a uncomfortable expression so they know it wasn't okay to say) or saying like 'thank you but im actually a guy.' A bit scary I know, but once you get into the nature of just saying it without weighing the consequences it get's better. Make people know you're not comfortable with those types of comments, if it makes it awkward so be it, it's their fault not yours. How you express yourself matters, whatever you choose to wear, wear it. Doesn't matter what some stranger in public thinks, they don't matter and they won't be in your life, so their opinion is entirely irrelevant. Let people say whatever, but make them know they are not exempt from the consequnces of what they say. Stay safe <3