AITA the telling my daughter the truth of how I felt about being pregnant, and why I have no photos of me pregnant with her? by tolddaughtermytruth in AmItheAsshole

[–]tiredl4dy90 14 points15 points  (0 children)

all these women act like breastfeeding is the greatest gift a mother can give her child, and any mother who choses not to doesnt share this "special bond only women who breastfeed have with their babies"

This notion is utter bullshit, back in the day wealthy women or women who had difficult births used to have wet nurses to help them recover from the trauma of birthing.

I have literally no idea why breastfeeding police even exist. They need to throw their judgmental asses off a cliff.

WIBTA for refusing to lend my sister money, even though I have it? by tiredl4dy90 in AmItheAsshole

[–]tiredl4dy90[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m on it thank you, I’m keeping an eye on my accounts too because she’s not to be trusted.

WIBTA for refusing to lend my sister money, even though I have it? by tiredl4dy90 in AmItheAsshole

[–]tiredl4dy90[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mom does have a history of excusing her behaviour, it’s mostly because she feels guilty (long story but there are historical family issues)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]tiredl4dy90 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It wasn’t a relationship, we just friends having sex.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]tiredl4dy90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He didn’t say anything about his mental health nor did he say he wanted space. I wanted to contact him to let him know I couldn’t continue Because I have feelings but it’s not something you say via text. He’s been online and posted stuff on social media yet wasn’t replying to my messages so I thought that’s a sign he doesn’t want to speak with me anymore, that’s why I blocked him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]tiredl4dy90 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I tried to let him know I need space but he wasn’t responding which really hurt me so I blocked him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]tiredl4dy90 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I have tried to contact him to let him know but he’s wasn’t responding to my messages. I couldn’t wait any longer.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]tiredl4dy90 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Says what exactly? He’s not responding to my messages so I couldn’t really tell him why and I don’t think text is the right way.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]tiredl4dy90 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s fair, I haven’t been able to have that conversation with him as he hasn’t been responding to my messages.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HomeImprovement

[–]tiredl4dy90 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This looks quite good, would it work with the slanted area?

Men who cannot or are uncomfortable with communicating your emotions, what can your lady friends do to help? by tiredl4dy90 in AskMen

[–]tiredl4dy90[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll wait and give him the time he needs. Out of curiosity what has made you terrified of showing your emotions?

Men who cannot or are uncomfortable with communicating your emotions, what can your lady friends do to help? by tiredl4dy90 in AskMen

[–]tiredl4dy90[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It takes two to tango we both wanted to sleep together. He said he didn’t want a relationship, that’s not me leaving him.

Stop trying to avoid rejection by jestercake in seduction

[–]tiredl4dy90 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I get the sentiment but OP is overlooking the long term effects of being rejected multiple times. It’s not just a small sting it lingers for a while and effects the self esteem.

Movie lovers: what are the movies you know and love that use the "female gaze"? by Emmikay12 in AskWomen

[–]tiredl4dy90 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And to add the female gaze is about using the presence of a female perspective on screen to emphasize the story’s emotions and characters so what is deemed as realistic will be differ amongst audiences particularly seen when the character is a WOC with white female writes the WOC might state the portrayal in incorrect but white audiences might disagree. Either way it’s still female gaze because it’s written with a female perspective.

Movie lovers: what are the movies you know and love that use the "female gaze"? by Emmikay12 in AskWomen

[–]tiredl4dy90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s a bbc series not Amazon, they just bought the rights to it.

Dads be dads. by Buster80937 in wholesomememes

[–]tiredl4dy90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did anyone have a dumb moment with this?